Today I'd like to talk briefly about gender identification. I don't have too much personal experience, but there are some ideas that are incorrect today in America.
Our culture has two main genders: male or female. I have heard that other cultures have some other genders, which allows people more freedom when identifying their own gender and sexuality. But here in America, it is rigid. Even transgender or transsexual people run into this rigid inflexibility, which is ridiculous! We need a new mentality! I'm going to propose one that I've heard before:
Separate gender and sexuality from anatomy.
This takes away the labels. This takes away all that rigidness. And I'm going to address a few examples. But first, what do I mean by this separation of functions?
Say you were born a male. But all through your life, you felt like a woman. You identified with women, you felt every feeling and urge a woman felt, and you really truly felt that mentally and emotionally you were feminine. Now, America looks at you, says "Oh, you have a dick. You're a dude." But separate anatomy from identity for a moment, and you can say, "I strongly identify as a female," regardless of your body. This can also allow someone to place themselves on a scale. You can say that you are around 60 percent male, 40 percent female, REGARDLESS of anatomy. This opens up unlimited possibilities for gender identification based upon mentality. I dislike the bi-gender ideals of America, because for someone who does not identify as 100 percent the same gender that their physical form dictates that they are, it can cause confusion, stress, anxiety, and discomfort.
I want to also say that this is something that we should adopt as a society and talk openly about. Imagine the clarification for tomboy-ish girls, who could then say "Yes, I do identify as partially male," and for feminine guys who could know without shame that they were partially female. I can only hope that one day we can learn how to expand our idea of genders. I don't mean that we should go overboard about it, and say that if you like chick flicks you are one more percent female. But for someone who genuinely does not identify as the standard norm, this can be a lifesaver.
Neither S. or I identify as partially both genders. Even in her bisexuality, she fantasises about being with girls AS a girl. If I got something wrong, please message me your corrections and I will edit this post. Thank you!
-A.
Friday, December 31, 2010
cocks and naptime! -S.
Last night, A. was up all night, so when he came over this morning, he was super tired. I, for some reason was too(though I got 7 hours of sleep). When he walked in, we went into my bedroom, and tried to go to sleep together. Neither of us could fall asleep!
After over two hours of trying to sleep, we gave up. Our day started with a long kiss, leading into making out, and feeling each other up. We tried a semi new position. It was girl on top. A.'s lower half of his body was leaning slightly off of the bed, and I was grinding into him. I had major stimulation towards both my clitoris, AND my g-spot. It was sensational!
After a while, we stopped with that, and moved on with our morning. We ate some breakfast, and then went and ran some errands. We had a small coffee date at the nearest bookstore, and read books, and watched videos on A.'s laptop. It was so perfect, and so cliche! I loved every minute of it=)
While we were in the coffee shop, A. played with my pussy(my purse sitting on my lap hiding it all)), and with my bellybutton(read my previous post to figure out about the whole bellybutton thing. SUCH a turn on!). I was really hot and bothered. I wanted him to touch me all over, and take me for his own pleasure!!!! We went back to my place, and A. and i were both still tired. We took another nap, this time sleeping for well over an hour.
We woke up a few times in between, and once i woke up to my hand playing at the edge of his khaki pants. I had been having a dream i was giving him a hand job. A. had thought he was dreaming when all of this was going on, and so he undid his pants, and pulled them down(after i had told him my dream. Remember, he thinks all of this is a dream!), and tells me to give him a hand job!
Being a good girl friend, I did it;). I didn't look at his cock the whole entire time(Don't ask me how. I just had a feeling that i shouldn't). A. told me he wanted me to give him oral, and I told him I couldn't. He gave me a confused look, and asked why! Then, he guided my head down. I resisted(remember those fickle boundaries=/ Gah). Well then he almost came, so we could stop so he could get back to sleep.
When we woke up again, he was really in the mood. I asked him if he liked it. A. was confused as to what "it" was! I asked him if he even remember it, and he kept saying "remembered what?! What am i supposed to have remembered!!!" This is when i found out he had thought it was a dream!!!! I told him about it, and asked how i knew about all of that! He honestly thought it was a dream!!!! I asked him again if he had liked it, and he said yes!!!! He said i could do that whenever I wanted, and do whatever i wanted! I said something along the lines of "oh well i can do it again right now if you'd like ;)," and he pulled out his cock and said "go for it!!!!" I gave him another hand job. HE LOVED IT!!!!!
A. told me he wanted to titty fuck me, and i let him! It was incredible! If you have never been titty fucked, or titty fucked someone, go and do it now. It is such a HUGE turn on! His pre-cum was all over my boobs, which of course made everything hotter!
Afterwards, A. and i decided we had gone too far, and we were not ready for that. Too much of a temptation. But of course, we can daydream about it, and talk about how hot it was, and everything;) When he titty fucked me, and did NOT see his dick. I don't want to see his dick until our wedding night when we first have sex. I cannot wait to see it for the first time, and don't even ask me how i didn't see it, but my light was off, and it was dark outside so that definitely helped!!!!!
More later!!!!
S.
P.S., Happy New Year everyone!
After over two hours of trying to sleep, we gave up. Our day started with a long kiss, leading into making out, and feeling each other up. We tried a semi new position. It was girl on top. A.'s lower half of his body was leaning slightly off of the bed, and I was grinding into him. I had major stimulation towards both my clitoris, AND my g-spot. It was sensational!
After a while, we stopped with that, and moved on with our morning. We ate some breakfast, and then went and ran some errands. We had a small coffee date at the nearest bookstore, and read books, and watched videos on A.'s laptop. It was so perfect, and so cliche! I loved every minute of it=)
While we were in the coffee shop, A. played with my pussy(my purse sitting on my lap hiding it all)), and with my bellybutton(read my previous post to figure out about the whole bellybutton thing. SUCH a turn on!). I was really hot and bothered. I wanted him to touch me all over, and take me for his own pleasure!!!! We went back to my place, and A. and i were both still tired. We took another nap, this time sleeping for well over an hour.
We woke up a few times in between, and once i woke up to my hand playing at the edge of his khaki pants. I had been having a dream i was giving him a hand job. A. had thought he was dreaming when all of this was going on, and so he undid his pants, and pulled them down(after i had told him my dream. Remember, he thinks all of this is a dream!), and tells me to give him a hand job!
Being a good girl friend, I did it;). I didn't look at his cock the whole entire time(Don't ask me how. I just had a feeling that i shouldn't). A. told me he wanted me to give him oral, and I told him I couldn't. He gave me a confused look, and asked why! Then, he guided my head down. I resisted(remember those fickle boundaries=/ Gah). Well then he almost came, so we could stop so he could get back to sleep.
When we woke up again, he was really in the mood. I asked him if he liked it. A. was confused as to what "it" was! I asked him if he even remember it, and he kept saying "remembered what?! What am i supposed to have remembered!!!" This is when i found out he had thought it was a dream!!!! I told him about it, and asked how i knew about all of that! He honestly thought it was a dream!!!! I asked him again if he had liked it, and he said yes!!!! He said i could do that whenever I wanted, and do whatever i wanted! I said something along the lines of "oh well i can do it again right now if you'd like ;)," and he pulled out his cock and said "go for it!!!!" I gave him another hand job. HE LOVED IT!!!!!
A. told me he wanted to titty fuck me, and i let him! It was incredible! If you have never been titty fucked, or titty fucked someone, go and do it now. It is such a HUGE turn on! His pre-cum was all over my boobs, which of course made everything hotter!
Afterwards, A. and i decided we had gone too far, and we were not ready for that. Too much of a temptation. But of course, we can daydream about it, and talk about how hot it was, and everything;) When he titty fucked me, and did NOT see his dick. I don't want to see his dick until our wedding night when we first have sex. I cannot wait to see it for the first time, and don't even ask me how i didn't see it, but my light was off, and it was dark outside so that definitely helped!!!!!
More later!!!!
S.
P.S., Happy New Year everyone!
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Stomach Play - A.
So like S. said, we discovered the fourth hole. When I was with her a few days ago, as a joke I put my finger in her belly button because it's made her giggle in the past. You know, those goofy things you do for a girl that you would never admit to doing or would never dream you would do? This was one of them. But I did not get the goofy reaction!
Instead, her eyes rolled back a little and she moaned and arched her back. I was totally taken by surprise! I really shouldn't have though. We had been playing around with each other all day, and with all those hormones in our bloodstream every single touch left a little trail of fire on our skin. I mean, we had been apart for a month! Can you blame us for being a horny little couple?!?!
This new sensation has opened up some new doors for us.
First of all, fingering it is GREAT! I can now discreetly finger her in public, I can do more combinations for double penetration fingering, and I can give her new sensations. It's just one more place for me to be inside her, even if it's not very deep.
We are going to try some oral action next time we see each other too. I already kiss her all over, and that includes her stomach. But I never really went near her belly button. It just never occurred to me that that's a sensitive spot on the human body and that during arousal stimulating it could lead to her pleasure. So a little tongue and lips action could be really cool! Or it could flop entirely, who knows?
The last one is full on stomach-humping. I've thought about it a bit and it seems like the best way for me to do this would be with neither of us lying down. Like, she sits and I kneel facing her. A new variation of missionary might work too, and once we learn the ins and outs of our new activity we might try some girl-on-top stomach play. And once we are having full-on sex, it will be easy to put the head of my cock in there and make little thrusts.
I would compare her belly button to her breasts. She needs to be slightly aroused for any stimulation to feel like sexual pleasure. They add to her arousal, while her vagina is the epicenter of her sex. They are not the main event, but they're a hell of an appetizer! She could probably come just from stimulation to her bellybutton since she already has come from stimulation to just her breasts, but she has to be very aroused. Like her boobs it can be used for humping and fucking, and oral play.
Hmmmm.... I think I might be onto something!
I hearby declare the belly button the third breast.
Have a great day everyone! I'll be posting more later tonight!
-A.
Instead, her eyes rolled back a little and she moaned and arched her back. I was totally taken by surprise! I really shouldn't have though. We had been playing around with each other all day, and with all those hormones in our bloodstream every single touch left a little trail of fire on our skin. I mean, we had been apart for a month! Can you blame us for being a horny little couple?!?!
This new sensation has opened up some new doors for us.
First of all, fingering it is GREAT! I can now discreetly finger her in public, I can do more combinations for double penetration fingering, and I can give her new sensations. It's just one more place for me to be inside her, even if it's not very deep.
We are going to try some oral action next time we see each other too. I already kiss her all over, and that includes her stomach. But I never really went near her belly button. It just never occurred to me that that's a sensitive spot on the human body and that during arousal stimulating it could lead to her pleasure. So a little tongue and lips action could be really cool! Or it could flop entirely, who knows?
The last one is full on stomach-humping. I've thought about it a bit and it seems like the best way for me to do this would be with neither of us lying down. Like, she sits and I kneel facing her. A new variation of missionary might work too, and once we learn the ins and outs of our new activity we might try some girl-on-top stomach play. And once we are having full-on sex, it will be easy to put the head of my cock in there and make little thrusts.
I would compare her belly button to her breasts. She needs to be slightly aroused for any stimulation to feel like sexual pleasure. They add to her arousal, while her vagina is the epicenter of her sex. They are not the main event, but they're a hell of an appetizer! She could probably come just from stimulation to her bellybutton since she already has come from stimulation to just her breasts, but she has to be very aroused. Like her boobs it can be used for humping and fucking, and oral play.
Hmmmm.... I think I might be onto something!
I hearby declare the belly button the third breast.
Have a great day everyone! I'll be posting more later tonight!
-A.
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
Moods and Bondage - A.
Hello everyone! I apologize for the lack of posts. I've been taking some time off of posting to spend Christmas with my family. But now I am back for good!
Yesterday S. and I got some time to ourselves, so we had quite a bit of fun. I haven't seen her in about a month, so we were both practically drooling with anticipation and lust. Needless to say we had quite a bit of fun! Buuuuuuut I'm going to be posting that tommorow. Don't be angry, I like to tease people ;) So I'm going to choose two random posts I've been working on and post them one after the other. Think of this as those leftovers you eat the night before thanksgiving because all the food you've cooked is for the next day.
First I'm going to post up a list of my alter egos and when they emerge. I was just talking to S. about this because I was thinking back on our days together and realized that I can cycle through pretty much all of these in one day. Some of these are kind of funny!
Early Morning A.- This is what I am like in the morning. I have to rely on S. for info on what E.M.A. is like because I often don't remember. This is a very irked ego. E.M.A. grumbles about most of what happens around me, from noise to light to lack of coffee to the moron who mows his lawn at seven A.M. every other weekday. I also take a long time to answer questions and make caveman grunts to most attempts at conversation. S. thinks it's cute. I still have no idea what happens between waking up and my first long chug of coffee.
Chill A. - This is my every-day persona. I spend the majority of my day in this mode. It's just my normal mood. I am a fairly introverted person and I talk rather quietly. I play acoustic guitar and listen to Iron and Wine in Starbucks and read S L O W L Y D O W N W A R D. I like flatbread sandwiches and working out in the morning. I stay up all night at open mic nights, both preforming and listening, and then rush to get to class in the morning. I'm a fairly normal guy.
Romantic/Sweet A. - This is when I want to make S. swoon. I write songs on the spot to sing for her. I bring her lilies (her favorite flower) and take her out for coffe dates where we sit and watch the world go by. I have slow, loving intimate time with S.
Sexy A. - Plain and simple, this is when I'm horny. Yeah. Pretty simple.
Ravenous A. - This is a special ego. It only comes out when I am desperately turned on and we are in very dirty moods. This comes out during phone sex too. But only when it's some dirty fantasy where I'm in control, S. is tied up or handcuffed, there's lots of spanking, I've had my cock in three different girls who are all sitting obediently and panting, and S. has eaten and been eaten out. It requires dirty, dirty sex. I mean DIRTY stuff. This ego doesn't come out very often at all, but when it does it usually ends in massive fun.
This piece isn't very informative or entertaining. That's why it's leftovers. Duh!
Now for part two. This is a few new BDSM type activities I forgot to mention in my last post. They're really pretty simple.
The first is very basic. S. and I love it when I hold her hands above her head while having intimate time. This isn't really too advanced or complicated, but it's a nice intro into bondage. And it really adds a whole new dimension to our intimate time. I gain an element of control and S. gains one of submission, adding this excitement to the activity. I love how it makes me the master and her the slave. In fact, she rather enjoys being called my slave during intimate time! I was so shocked when she asked me to, but I love it to this day!
Another more recent one is when I rake my fingers down her body. I got the inspiration from the musical "Cats". There is one scene where one of the male cats lifts the female above his head by holding the small of her back with one hand. She then bends back so her head and feet are towards the floor, like an upside down "U". She then lifted one leg straight up into the air. Then the male cat took his fingers and raked them from below her knee down over her butt and she shivered. Guess what? S. shivered too. Then jumped me. So yeah, good strategy. It seems to be like spanking. S. has to be turned on, and we have to be in the mood. But once we are, it's pure pleasure for her.
Thanks for putting up with my recycled material! Tommorow will be a post on yesterday's activities, and Friday MIGHT be some interviews with employees from lingerie shops around our area!
-A.
Yesterday S. and I got some time to ourselves, so we had quite a bit of fun. I haven't seen her in about a month, so we were both practically drooling with anticipation and lust. Needless to say we had quite a bit of fun! Buuuuuuut I'm going to be posting that tommorow. Don't be angry, I like to tease people ;) So I'm going to choose two random posts I've been working on and post them one after the other. Think of this as those leftovers you eat the night before thanksgiving because all the food you've cooked is for the next day.
First I'm going to post up a list of my alter egos and when they emerge. I was just talking to S. about this because I was thinking back on our days together and realized that I can cycle through pretty much all of these in one day. Some of these are kind of funny!
Early Morning A.- This is what I am like in the morning. I have to rely on S. for info on what E.M.A. is like because I often don't remember. This is a very irked ego. E.M.A. grumbles about most of what happens around me, from noise to light to lack of coffee to the moron who mows his lawn at seven A.M. every other weekday. I also take a long time to answer questions and make caveman grunts to most attempts at conversation. S. thinks it's cute. I still have no idea what happens between waking up and my first long chug of coffee.
Chill A. - This is my every-day persona. I spend the majority of my day in this mode. It's just my normal mood. I am a fairly introverted person and I talk rather quietly. I play acoustic guitar and listen to Iron and Wine in Starbucks and read S L O W L Y D O W N W A R D. I like flatbread sandwiches and working out in the morning. I stay up all night at open mic nights, both preforming and listening, and then rush to get to class in the morning. I'm a fairly normal guy.
Romantic/Sweet A. - This is when I want to make S. swoon. I write songs on the spot to sing for her. I bring her lilies (her favorite flower) and take her out for coffe dates where we sit and watch the world go by. I have slow, loving intimate time with S.
Sexy A. - Plain and simple, this is when I'm horny. Yeah. Pretty simple.
Ravenous A. - This is a special ego. It only comes out when I am desperately turned on and we are in very dirty moods. This comes out during phone sex too. But only when it's some dirty fantasy where I'm in control, S. is tied up or handcuffed, there's lots of spanking, I've had my cock in three different girls who are all sitting obediently and panting, and S. has eaten and been eaten out. It requires dirty, dirty sex. I mean DIRTY stuff. This ego doesn't come out very often at all, but when it does it usually ends in massive fun.
This piece isn't very informative or entertaining. That's why it's leftovers. Duh!
Now for part two. This is a few new BDSM type activities I forgot to mention in my last post. They're really pretty simple.
The first is very basic. S. and I love it when I hold her hands above her head while having intimate time. This isn't really too advanced or complicated, but it's a nice intro into bondage. And it really adds a whole new dimension to our intimate time. I gain an element of control and S. gains one of submission, adding this excitement to the activity. I love how it makes me the master and her the slave. In fact, she rather enjoys being called my slave during intimate time! I was so shocked when she asked me to, but I love it to this day!
Another more recent one is when I rake my fingers down her body. I got the inspiration from the musical "Cats". There is one scene where one of the male cats lifts the female above his head by holding the small of her back with one hand. She then bends back so her head and feet are towards the floor, like an upside down "U". She then lifted one leg straight up into the air. Then the male cat took his fingers and raked them from below her knee down over her butt and she shivered. Guess what? S. shivered too. Then jumped me. So yeah, good strategy. It seems to be like spanking. S. has to be turned on, and we have to be in the mood. But once we are, it's pure pleasure for her.
Thanks for putting up with my recycled material! Tommorow will be a post on yesterday's activities, and Friday MIGHT be some interviews with employees from lingerie shops around our area!
-A.
Bellybuttons???? -S.
A. and I discovered something during our lust-drunk day together. We couldn't stop touching, and feeling, and grabbing... More about that tomorrow, though. A. and i were joking around and tickling each other, and randomly he stuck his finger in my bellybutton! You'd think i would've bursted out laughing, but i moaned.... LOUD too! Why????
Girls- Now, before you go and try this on your boyfriend, because there is a tendon that runs through there and down through the guy's penis. If you push a little too hard, it causes a severe pain.
Guys- Your girl DEFINITELY needs to be in the mood for this. Neither A. nor I have ever heard of anybody getting turned on by this before. It may have just been because for the previous 3-4 hours, we were all over each other(complete with hot, sweaty, half naked bodies..... But again, that's for later;D) For whatever reason, it felt as though A. was fingering my pussy! He touched my bellybutton as a playful thing! He had meant to tickle me, and surprise me with the random sensation(as bellybuttons are not normally played with).
I've been doing research on this for part of the night. Apparently, it's not all to strange for a girl to become turned on by stimulation through her belly button! Girls with bellybutton rings tend to like for their significant other to nibble on it(LIGHTLY guys. We don't want to tear her bellybutton!).
Why on earth did i like this????? The feeling of this was orgasmic... It felt just like A. was fingering my pussy.... Almost like he was right on my g-spot... It felt as though he was filling up my entire pussy, and i didn't want it to stop.... This all came about because he "fingered" my bellybutton????? What. The. Heck. Did i seriously almost cum because of that???? Yeah. Yeah, i did. You all don't understand! It was incredibly sexy... In a really funny way. Thinking about it is hilarious, but the feeling was anything but.... It was sexy, and hot, and I almost couldn't take the way it felt! It felt like he was touching my g-spot, my clitoris, and filling my whole pussy... Like, i was on the brink of orgasm.... Why???
In the stomach, there are many nerve endings. The nerve endings move from the brain, down to wherever their "home base" is. The never endings that HURT when a guy is poked in the bellybutton lead down to their cock. For a girl, this doesn't hurt. A girl's pussy can take more than a guy's cock(because, even though stereotypes SAY a guy is always hard, and turned on, I'm sorry, this is not true. You actually DO have to try to turn a guy on! Surprise surprise....?). According to A., when you are poked too hard in your bellybutton as a guy, it feels as though your "winded on your dick." For a girl, we can take pushing a baby through a tiny hole that stretches to the length of a newborn child. A guy can take a kidney stone. We have much more tolerance for pain when it comes to our lady parts, and their guy parts. The nerve endings that give a girl pleasure from this connect to her g-spot, clit, and then surrounding areas near the pussy, hence the feeling of an instant orgasm(without the mess). I will let A. explain why it hurts for a guy.
Tomorrow, I will make a post on everything A. and I have done in the last two days. We had a very sexy past two days, and some new experiences.
Until tomorrow....
-S.
Girls- Now, before you go and try this on your boyfriend, because there is a tendon that runs through there and down through the guy's penis. If you push a little too hard, it causes a severe pain.
Guys- Your girl DEFINITELY needs to be in the mood for this. Neither A. nor I have ever heard of anybody getting turned on by this before. It may have just been because for the previous 3-4 hours, we were all over each other(complete with hot, sweaty, half naked bodies..... But again, that's for later;D) For whatever reason, it felt as though A. was fingering my pussy! He touched my bellybutton as a playful thing! He had meant to tickle me, and surprise me with the random sensation(as bellybuttons are not normally played with).
I've been doing research on this for part of the night. Apparently, it's not all to strange for a girl to become turned on by stimulation through her belly button! Girls with bellybutton rings tend to like for their significant other to nibble on it(LIGHTLY guys. We don't want to tear her bellybutton!).
Why on earth did i like this????? The feeling of this was orgasmic... It felt just like A. was fingering my pussy.... Almost like he was right on my g-spot... It felt as though he was filling up my entire pussy, and i didn't want it to stop.... This all came about because he "fingered" my bellybutton????? What. The. Heck. Did i seriously almost cum because of that???? Yeah. Yeah, i did. You all don't understand! It was incredibly sexy... In a really funny way. Thinking about it is hilarious, but the feeling was anything but.... It was sexy, and hot, and I almost couldn't take the way it felt! It felt like he was touching my g-spot, my clitoris, and filling my whole pussy... Like, i was on the brink of orgasm.... Why???
In the stomach, there are many nerve endings. The nerve endings move from the brain, down to wherever their "home base" is. The never endings that HURT when a guy is poked in the bellybutton lead down to their cock. For a girl, this doesn't hurt. A girl's pussy can take more than a guy's cock(because, even though stereotypes SAY a guy is always hard, and turned on, I'm sorry, this is not true. You actually DO have to try to turn a guy on! Surprise surprise....?). According to A., when you are poked too hard in your bellybutton as a guy, it feels as though your "winded on your dick." For a girl, we can take pushing a baby through a tiny hole that stretches to the length of a newborn child. A guy can take a kidney stone. We have much more tolerance for pain when it comes to our lady parts, and their guy parts. The nerve endings that give a girl pleasure from this connect to her g-spot, clit, and then surrounding areas near the pussy, hence the feeling of an instant orgasm(without the mess). I will let A. explain why it hurts for a guy.
Tomorrow, I will make a post on everything A. and I have done in the last two days. We had a very sexy past two days, and some new experiences.
Until tomorrow....
-S.
Sunday, December 26, 2010
Home! -S.
I'm coming home today! I will be spending time with my A. and hopefully tomorrow, he will receive his Chirstmas presents! The sweet one he will wear for a long time, i know=) It's a promise ring. He knows about it, because i had to get his ring size from him. It's absolutely perfect, and i may even post a picture of him wearing it tomorrow! It's very exciting!!!!!
Now, the present you guys are interested in is the sexy one, and i can't tell you yet! i know i keep talking about it, but you will know hopefully by tomorrow what IT is! And you will know all the dirty details of my day with A.;)
More later- S.
Now, the present you guys are interested in is the sexy one, and i can't tell you yet! i know i keep talking about it, but you will know hopefully by tomorrow what IT is! And you will know all the dirty details of my day with A.;)
More later- S.
Friday, December 24, 2010
Christmas Eve!!! -S.
Only 36 more hours until I'm in town again!!! A. and i have a plan... We want to try out a ton of new positions!!! We agreed on picking the most outrageous ones, and using those =) You all will definitely be hearing about them! The ones we have already looked at vary between either super boring, things we have already tried, or they're SUPER insane! We are trying to find some insane ones! I personally love anything with clitoral stimulation. The feeling of him pressed against my clit makes me feel like I'm going to explode! It's an indescribable sensation, and I LOVE IT. It's as if every nerve ending in my body is focused directly on my clit! It's so close to being an unbearable feeling, but in the best sense of the word. A. put his finger on my clit last time we were together, and i sweat, A. has magic fingers. He didn't push too hard, he wasn't too gentle, and everything he did was amazing... His fingers moved in the smallest little circular movements, and i wished it was his tongue... it felt as though he was flicking his fingers so lightly and rapidly on my clitoris, and i could feel him get harder from doing it. SUCH. A. TURN. ON.
(By the way, my boyfriend is the HOTTEST guy on the planet!)
-S.
P.S., Merry Christmas Eve, and merry Christmas!!!
(By the way, my boyfriend is the HOTTEST guy on the planet!)
-S.
P.S., Merry Christmas Eve, and merry Christmas!!!
Thursday, December 23, 2010
Sexxxy! -S.
One of A.'s home made Christmas presents from me for this year(yay for saving money!) is SO sexxxxay! It's really simple, too! Revert back to an old childhood memory(that's your hint, love!!!!). I love to do something sexy, and something sweet for A. as a Christmas present, and as a birthday present every year. And Valentine's tends to be a sweet time as well. But somehow, the sweet presents always manage to turn out really sexy! This year for Valentine's, I had planned out a picnic for A. We went to a white gazeebo that stood on a pond... There were two swans in the pond... It was a fairy tale!!! Later that night, we had gone back to my pla became super sexy, and we started out having a really sweet make out session, which turned into a sexy one, and led to me being topless on the bed while wearing little tiny bright blue bootie shorts! That night, on the phone, we had a sexy night as well. Everything just became super sexy! Why is it that the really sweet things seem to always end up as something hot and sexy? Not that I'm complaining, of course;)
-S.
-S.
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Coming Out-S.
I now understand why coming out is so hard for people to do.... Last night, a text meant for one of my girl friends(who DOES know I'm a bisexual),i accidentally sent to one of my guy friends(who DOESN'T know I'm a bisexual). He is very conservative, and it scared me to hear how he reacted. I dreaded the reply text. I never meant to send that to him!!!! But it happened... So i waited. I asked A. to call his girlfriend, and tell her what had happened. He did.
The friend understood, and told me he wouldn't judge me.
What???? Wait, what?????
I did NOT think it was going to be that easy! I've even begun to contemplate telling my dad about it! I DO understand why it's difficult... Last night, my brothers called me a "bisexual queer" because I was reading an article on the latest Disney disaster, Demi Lovato. In the article, it showed a risque picture of the girl in question, and she was licking another girl while pulling her shirt down, and exposing A TON of cleavage. My brothers jokingly called me a "bisexual queer," while not knowing that i AM a bisexual. It seriously hurt! I was on Skype with A., and I could tell he was worried about me.. I was in a horrible mood all night after that. I didn't want to talk to anybody, and I just wanted to be left alone(except for from A. of course). I wasn't in the mood... People can be so mean about that kind of thing! It's horribly insulting! I was so mad!!!!! Now, I don't exactly have all of the problems that comes with being a total lesbian, or total gay. being bisexual seems to go over better with people than saying that you are totally gay!
Why do people go so crazy when others tell them that "hey, I'm gay, lesbian, or bisexual!"
Why??
Many people believe that when you are bisexual you choose one way over the other. I choose guys. To be more specific, i choose A.
-S.
Why do people go so crazy when others tell them that "hey, I'm gay, lesbian, or bisexual!"
Why??
Many people believe that when you are bisexual you choose one way over the other. I choose guys. To be more specific, i choose A.
-S.
Monday, December 20, 2010
Cheesecake (Erotica) Pt. 2 - A.
Continued from Part 1...
She raises herself up on her knees and unbuttons two buttons on my shirt. I start to look down, but she takes my chin in her hand and raises my head back. "Close your eyes," S. says with an evil glint. I play good and do it.
I feel her breasts across my face. I suck in my breath as her left boob slides across my face... her soft supple skin moving slowly... her nipple grazing my lips... her valley enveloping me... her right breast tracing a circle around my face.... I'm harder than ever...
I open my eyes to see S.'s breasts hovering two inches away. Nothing better in the world. I look into her eyes and whisper "Shower, NOW..."
I was tired of sitting still and being tortured. Now it's my turn to make her shake with pleasure.
We both help each other up and walk hand in hand to the shower. I open the door like a good gentleman and follow her inside. She turns on the water and adjusts it to get it a bit warmer. I know our water will run out in about twelve to fifteen minutes normally, and since the tub took a bunch it'll be like ten. So if I want some shower loving I need to be quick. Or at least quicker than I'd like to be. I'll have to settle for finishing what I want to do out of the water.
I step under the stream with her and kiss S. harder than I have all week. My tongue glides over her lips and slowly enters her mouth to taste her, my heart pounding. I love to have long, extravagant foreplay, but it is pretty hot when she's ready to go without a single touch. Now is one of those times when her body is physically needing me, begging for me... I can practically feel my cock moving towards her vagina as if from some small gravitational or magnetic force. But I can tell that this is going to be one of those times where the slightest stimulation for more than a minute will send me over the edge, and I want this evening to last. So I break off our kiss and reach up to grasp the dildo.
S.'s eyes light up like it's Christmas morning. This is a toy we don't often pull out. I bought it on a whim, and it's been of use once before. That was when we stuck it to the top of our washing machine and she sat on it. The spin cycle had her rocking and moaning, and that same back-and-forth stimulation has become something she simulates with her hips quite often.
I hand the clear dildo to her. She pulls her shirt up, finally letting me feast my eyes on her crotch. And feast they do.
She parts herself, sucking in her breath. Her lips are plump, her lining wet.
She places the head of the toy on the opening, moaning a little at the touch.
One inch in. Her eyes close, her chest heaves, her skin flushes.
Two inches. She's wetter. I can see her, practically TASTE the juices flowing down the shaft of the toy.
She pushes the rest in and grips my shoulder to stop an orgasm. Her mouth is a perfect "O" of ecstasy.
As her eyes open, I can tell she's adjusting to the toy inside. Her body is toying with it, her pussy pulling it up and down slightly, just enough to be able to see. I smile sweetly and bend her over. She backs up into the wall of the shower, gasping as the toy makes contact and briefly plunges deep inside her as it adheres itself to the wet glass. Then it's ready. Time to play, little kitten.
She rocks back and forth in little tiny motions. It's clearly all she needs. My hand drifts towards my cock, standing erect under the water. But she reaches it first. Being bent over at the waist means that it's practically at eye level with her, which I know is too tempting for her to resist.
She takes me into her mouth, lightly manipulating my head with her lips. She rocks back and forth, moaning around my shaft. "Do you like having two cocks, my little slut?" I ask with a leer. She moans louder in reply, pulling me deeper and rocking back harder than before. I love it when she's being my whore. She opens wide, and I smile. I know what that means. I begin to thrust hard into her mouth, making sure not to go too deep. She's shivering with pleasure, and I know this must be driving her crazy. She's one of those girls who just loves to give blowjobs. I definitely lucked out with her.
She's rocking harder, sucking herself with the dildo more vigorously. My cock is slowly getting harder and harder as she flicks her tongue around the head. I glance at the clock on the wall. It's just about time to get out. I pull my dick away from her. She leans her head down and rams the toy in and out. She doesn't seem to notice when I turn off the water.
She's going in harder. Her breath is fast, her breasts shaking, her body heaving. She leans back as her orgasm builds, moaning and groaning for the pleasure. I stand and rub myself slowly. I know she can pull five or six orgasms and still be ready for more, so I'm not worried about her getting tired. Her eyes snap open with the first pulse of an orgasm, and I smile down at her.
She comes hard, exploding inside. I see her drip like a faucet onto the tile. Then all of a sudden, instead of slowly coming back from it, she attacks me.
She pulls herself off the toy and wraps around me. Her body is shivering with the orgasm, but she's humping me, wanting more. Her mouth is smothering mine, and it takes my breath away. We stumble out of the shower and tumble to the ground, soaking wet and desperate. I'm inside her and fucking her before we hit the ground. I can feel her cum twice more in the span of a minute, her pussy growing hotter and hotter. Our wet skin slides over it, and I feel myself coming closer. I moan loudly and she echoes. I'm getting closer... I can't hold back...
I explode. My body writhes as a huge orgasm rocks me. I lose sight of the world for about five minutes. When I come to, S. is lying beside me, still panting. We both slowly come back to the real world and just relax. I roll onto my side, away from S. I breathe slowly and smile at my amazing night.
"Honey...." S. breathes
"Yes?" I look over my shoulder. S. is propped up on one arm and smiling at me.
"Can I tell you something?"
"Of course!" I smile.
She leans in really close. As her lips come within an inch of mine, she pauses. Then my body is writhing again.
Her finger is inside of my ass, moving in little circles. She pushes it in deep, making me moan with pleasure. My cock jumps back up. As she begins to fuck my ass with her hand, she whispers, "You didn't think you'd get away with eating my cheesecake without a little bit of punishment, did you?"
THE END
She raises herself up on her knees and unbuttons two buttons on my shirt. I start to look down, but she takes my chin in her hand and raises my head back. "Close your eyes," S. says with an evil glint. I play good and do it.
I feel her breasts across my face. I suck in my breath as her left boob slides across my face... her soft supple skin moving slowly... her nipple grazing my lips... her valley enveloping me... her right breast tracing a circle around my face.... I'm harder than ever...
I open my eyes to see S.'s breasts hovering two inches away. Nothing better in the world. I look into her eyes and whisper "Shower, NOW..."
I was tired of sitting still and being tortured. Now it's my turn to make her shake with pleasure.
We both help each other up and walk hand in hand to the shower. I open the door like a good gentleman and follow her inside. She turns on the water and adjusts it to get it a bit warmer. I know our water will run out in about twelve to fifteen minutes normally, and since the tub took a bunch it'll be like ten. So if I want some shower loving I need to be quick. Or at least quicker than I'd like to be. I'll have to settle for finishing what I want to do out of the water.
I step under the stream with her and kiss S. harder than I have all week. My tongue glides over her lips and slowly enters her mouth to taste her, my heart pounding. I love to have long, extravagant foreplay, but it is pretty hot when she's ready to go without a single touch. Now is one of those times when her body is physically needing me, begging for me... I can practically feel my cock moving towards her vagina as if from some small gravitational or magnetic force. But I can tell that this is going to be one of those times where the slightest stimulation for more than a minute will send me over the edge, and I want this evening to last. So I break off our kiss and reach up to grasp the dildo.
S.'s eyes light up like it's Christmas morning. This is a toy we don't often pull out. I bought it on a whim, and it's been of use once before. That was when we stuck it to the top of our washing machine and she sat on it. The spin cycle had her rocking and moaning, and that same back-and-forth stimulation has become something she simulates with her hips quite often.
I hand the clear dildo to her. She pulls her shirt up, finally letting me feast my eyes on her crotch. And feast they do.
She parts herself, sucking in her breath. Her lips are plump, her lining wet.
She places the head of the toy on the opening, moaning a little at the touch.
One inch in. Her eyes close, her chest heaves, her skin flushes.
Two inches. She's wetter. I can see her, practically TASTE the juices flowing down the shaft of the toy.
She pushes the rest in and grips my shoulder to stop an orgasm. Her mouth is a perfect "O" of ecstasy.
As her eyes open, I can tell she's adjusting to the toy inside. Her body is toying with it, her pussy pulling it up and down slightly, just enough to be able to see. I smile sweetly and bend her over. She backs up into the wall of the shower, gasping as the toy makes contact and briefly plunges deep inside her as it adheres itself to the wet glass. Then it's ready. Time to play, little kitten.
She rocks back and forth in little tiny motions. It's clearly all she needs. My hand drifts towards my cock, standing erect under the water. But she reaches it first. Being bent over at the waist means that it's practically at eye level with her, which I know is too tempting for her to resist.
She takes me into her mouth, lightly manipulating my head with her lips. She rocks back and forth, moaning around my shaft. "Do you like having two cocks, my little slut?" I ask with a leer. She moans louder in reply, pulling me deeper and rocking back harder than before. I love it when she's being my whore. She opens wide, and I smile. I know what that means. I begin to thrust hard into her mouth, making sure not to go too deep. She's shivering with pleasure, and I know this must be driving her crazy. She's one of those girls who just loves to give blowjobs. I definitely lucked out with her.
She's rocking harder, sucking herself with the dildo more vigorously. My cock is slowly getting harder and harder as she flicks her tongue around the head. I glance at the clock on the wall. It's just about time to get out. I pull my dick away from her. She leans her head down and rams the toy in and out. She doesn't seem to notice when I turn off the water.
She's going in harder. Her breath is fast, her breasts shaking, her body heaving. She leans back as her orgasm builds, moaning and groaning for the pleasure. I stand and rub myself slowly. I know she can pull five or six orgasms and still be ready for more, so I'm not worried about her getting tired. Her eyes snap open with the first pulse of an orgasm, and I smile down at her.
She comes hard, exploding inside. I see her drip like a faucet onto the tile. Then all of a sudden, instead of slowly coming back from it, she attacks me.
She pulls herself off the toy and wraps around me. Her body is shivering with the orgasm, but she's humping me, wanting more. Her mouth is smothering mine, and it takes my breath away. We stumble out of the shower and tumble to the ground, soaking wet and desperate. I'm inside her and fucking her before we hit the ground. I can feel her cum twice more in the span of a minute, her pussy growing hotter and hotter. Our wet skin slides over it, and I feel myself coming closer. I moan loudly and she echoes. I'm getting closer... I can't hold back...
I explode. My body writhes as a huge orgasm rocks me. I lose sight of the world for about five minutes. When I come to, S. is lying beside me, still panting. We both slowly come back to the real world and just relax. I roll onto my side, away from S. I breathe slowly and smile at my amazing night.
"Honey...." S. breathes
"Yes?" I look over my shoulder. S. is propped up on one arm and smiling at me.
"Can I tell you something?"
"Of course!" I smile.
She leans in really close. As her lips come within an inch of mine, she pauses. Then my body is writhing again.
Her finger is inside of my ass, moving in little circles. She pushes it in deep, making me moan with pleasure. My cock jumps back up. As she begins to fuck my ass with her hand, she whispers, "You didn't think you'd get away with eating my cheesecake without a little bit of punishment, did you?"
THE END
Sunday, December 19, 2010
Masturbating -S.
I love to get on the phone late at night with A. and have a super sexy phone sex night. I love to get on, and surprise him with the first thing i do being a loud, hot moan that makes him hard, fast. I love to be the thing that turns him on, and to hear his moan is the best reward a girl could get! But what am i to do when A. isn't able to talk, but I'm in the mood?
Well, you don't know our background with masturbation now, do you? A. and I were never able to get pleasure from masturbation before we were together! We had both attempted to masturbate, but never gained any real pleasure from it. We had been together for over a year when we attempted to masturbate while having phone sex with each other(why we never thought of trying this before, i don't know). He tried it first, and the reaction was INCREDIBLE. I could practically feel his pleasure through the phone!!! The way he moaned was amazing! We tried doing it with him so many different ways! Finally he said that it was my turn, and I was skeptical. After all, I've never had luck with masturbation before, so why would I now??? It took a while with me. We were about ready to give up, when A. told me to grab my cell phone(we were on a land line), and hold on. He called it on his home ling(he was on a cell phone), and he let it ring. He told me to have it held up to my pussy, and wait. My phone has a very severe vibrate, and instantly, it drove me crazy! I became so turned on, I literally could NOT see straight! It was a sensation i was not used to! Of course, A. had stimulated my pussy long before this point, but I wasn't used to stimulating it myself!
But this doesn't answer my original question.... What is a girl to do when her significant other isn't able to help her stimulate herself????
My favorite thing to do(obviously), is fantasize!!!!! I love to think about everything I would do to A. or everything I would want him to do to me! Every detail.... The way his lips would caress me... The way I would press my whole body against him.... How every inch of him would be mine... Him inside me....
Woo, it's getting hot in here!!!!
For my birthday last year, part of the present A. gave me was a vibrator shaped like a pen. That's easily my favorite toy to use when he isn't able to be there and be the one inside me!!! I love to feel the vibration hit my clitoris, and my g-spot at the same time.... When I do this, I imagine that he's there taking me... Pounding into me.... Taking my innocence.... Or I imagine what he would do if he were there, watching everything I was doing... What he would think, and how he would react... The look in his eyes....(just because i feel the need to brag, MY BOYFRIEND HAS THE MOST GORGEOUS, BEAUTIFUL ON THE PLANET, AND THEY ARE INTOXICATING, AND I LOVE THEM, AND I LOVE HIMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!)....
I love to hear stories from A. about when he had edge play(when you bring yourself close to orgasm, but do not allow yourself to cum), and how he had a particularly hot fantasy about us together... I always ask for details, and A. gives the best details(for those of you who haven't read his "Cheesecake" erotica, go back and look for it. You will be SO turned on!). He will tell me about the fantasy he had, and what he was doing to give himself pleasure at that point in the fantasy... He will give me details about both the fantasy, and what he was doing.... it's so sexy!!!!!
My question for you is... What do you do to give yourself pleasure when your significant other cannot be there to give you pleasure?
-S.
Well, you don't know our background with masturbation now, do you? A. and I were never able to get pleasure from masturbation before we were together! We had both attempted to masturbate, but never gained any real pleasure from it. We had been together for over a year when we attempted to masturbate while having phone sex with each other(why we never thought of trying this before, i don't know). He tried it first, and the reaction was INCREDIBLE. I could practically feel his pleasure through the phone!!! The way he moaned was amazing! We tried doing it with him so many different ways! Finally he said that it was my turn, and I was skeptical. After all, I've never had luck with masturbation before, so why would I now??? It took a while with me. We were about ready to give up, when A. told me to grab my cell phone(we were on a land line), and hold on. He called it on his home ling(he was on a cell phone), and he let it ring. He told me to have it held up to my pussy, and wait. My phone has a very severe vibrate, and instantly, it drove me crazy! I became so turned on, I literally could NOT see straight! It was a sensation i was not used to! Of course, A. had stimulated my pussy long before this point, but I wasn't used to stimulating it myself!
But this doesn't answer my original question.... What is a girl to do when her significant other isn't able to help her stimulate herself????
My favorite thing to do(obviously), is fantasize!!!!! I love to think about everything I would do to A. or everything I would want him to do to me! Every detail.... The way his lips would caress me... The way I would press my whole body against him.... How every inch of him would be mine... Him inside me....
Woo, it's getting hot in here!!!!
For my birthday last year, part of the present A. gave me was a vibrator shaped like a pen. That's easily my favorite toy to use when he isn't able to be there and be the one inside me!!! I love to feel the vibration hit my clitoris, and my g-spot at the same time.... When I do this, I imagine that he's there taking me... Pounding into me.... Taking my innocence.... Or I imagine what he would do if he were there, watching everything I was doing... What he would think, and how he would react... The look in his eyes....(just because i feel the need to brag, MY BOYFRIEND HAS THE MOST GORGEOUS, BEAUTIFUL ON THE PLANET, AND THEY ARE INTOXICATING, AND I LOVE THEM, AND I LOVE HIMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!!!)....
I love to hear stories from A. about when he had edge play(when you bring yourself close to orgasm, but do not allow yourself to cum), and how he had a particularly hot fantasy about us together... I always ask for details, and A. gives the best details(for those of you who haven't read his "Cheesecake" erotica, go back and look for it. You will be SO turned on!). He will tell me about the fantasy he had, and what he was doing to give himself pleasure at that point in the fantasy... He will give me details about both the fantasy, and what he was doing.... it's so sexy!!!!!
My question for you is... What do you do to give yourself pleasure when your significant other cannot be there to give you pleasure?
-S.
Birth Control - A.
Hey everyone! I'm still a little weak from being sick, and I was up early this morning, so this post will not be as long as my others. But stay tuned for part two of the erotica story I'm working on! It's getting good!
I just wanted to briefly address birth control. A friend of S. and I inspired this one. Her and her boyfriend are sexually active, do not want kids, and are too young and poor to raise one adequately. But so far the only forms of control they've tried is him pulling out right before he orgasms. Let's call them Dumb and Dumber. Dumber (the female) should be more responsible, but from me and S. talking to her, it is obvious that she has not been taught anything about sexuality or the human body at all, let alone birth control. To stop people from being like Dumb and Dumber, I am going to make the following announcement:
SEX COMES WITH RESPONSIBILITIES AND IF YOU DONT RESPECT THEM YOU WILL SUFFER
I am going to list out all the forms of birth control I have heard and learned about. Some of these are bad some are good. I'll be sure to include my notes on each. Please, for the love of pete, if you are going to have sex and don't want a child just yet practice good birth control. Don't be ignorant.
Method number one: Pulling Out
This is the method that will make me give you a stupid nickname on here (like, oh, I dunno, Dumb and Dumber). Pulling out IS NOT A GOOD FORM OF BIRTH CONTROL. It is baaaaad. The male pre-ejaculate, which is the small amount of fluid that leaks from the end of the penis during intense arousal, can contain small amounts of sperm. This fluid does not require an orgasm to discharge, and during extended sessions that small amount can add up. Sometimes men will begin to ejaculate a second or two before the rush of an orgasm. This can mean that he may pull out right before the "big O", but his sperm will be in you nonetheless. And what happens if you two both get caught up in the heat of the moment and forget to make him pull out? If you were both reaching the end of a good long sex session, you were nearing some great orgasms, and you were both really turned on and desperate, it would be easy to say "screw it, just fuck me!". Also a man can accidentally ejaculate near your vagina while he is pulling out or even after he has pulled out. It takes lots of practice to accurately aim ejaculate, and most men have not done any experimentation with that. Maybe he ejaculates at a downward angle? What if some drips off and onto miss vagina down there after he's done shooting his load?
Pulling out has a success rate. It is lower than almost all other birth control methods. Those are the reasons why. It is not a reliable birth control method in any way. The only method less successful than pulling out is cumming and ejaculating inside the girl with no protection and just crossing your fingers that she doesn't get pregnant.
Method number two: Condoms.
Good ol rubbers! These are cheap and generally reliable. Condoms are very effective when used correctly. You want to find one that is made by a trusted brand (if you really aren't sure, go with a large company like Trojan. And try to buy them in a pharmacy or large store. Those vending machines in gas stations are not the place to turn for quality products). Now use it properly! Be sure to get one that will fit well and not be too tight or too loose. Too tight will choke your penis, too loose will let it spray like a fire hose inside the girl. Once you've gotten the fit it's time for application. Take it out of it's little package and throw the wrapping away (no need to litter even in the heat of the moment. And it keeps from advertising to your kids/friends/family that you just had sex). Make sure your penis is at least most of the way hard. If it's not, put the condom aside and get a good blowjob, handjob, or other form or foreplay until you are. Once you have a firm cock, take the little ring of a condom and get to work! pinch the top to create a small pocket. THIS IS IMPORTANT. You don't want the condom to fit snugly all across the head of your cock like you've saran-wrapped it. The condom should be snug to your shaft, but you need to make sure you pinch the top off so there's some excess. Then roll the rest of the covering on. Try practicing on a phallic object if you've never done this before. It'll help you become smoother at applying it when the moment is upon you. You'll look cooler and be safer!
Now I know it's more fun to ride bareback, and condoms can seem expensive. But babies are VERY expensive. And time-consuming. So just weigh it out before you do something impulsive.
Method number three: "The Pill"
This is something you should see a doctor for. Seriously. And I'll tell you why you should.
Contraceptive pills are a great invention. They are for females, and use hormones to inhibit ovulation, which in layman's terms means that it stops the possibility for pregnancy. There are quite a few companies who manufacture these pills, and they have a variety of side effects and ingredients. You should talk to a doctor who knows you to find out which one will be best for you and what the risks are of taking it. I will not pretend to know which one is best for everyone. S. might be able to tell you all more on this later.
The beauty of these is that it's a once-a-day pill that is very effective at preventing pregnancy. You take it in the morning or afternoon daily and you are free to screw around all night long with as much sperm and you can handle. Literally, you can have someone make a creampie inside your pussy and be just fine. No physical protection needed, no condoms to apply, nothing. Just a little pill. Beautiful.
Method number four: Surgery
There are two common and safe surgeries that will basically make you sterile. One is a vasectomy, the other tubal ligation. They close off the tubes that lead from a man's testicles or a woman's ovaries. This method is expensive and has a moderate recovery time after the surgery, but is 100 percent effective for life. So yeah. All good.
Method number five: Intrauterine Device (IUD)
The IUD comes in hormonal and non-hormonal forms. One requires you to take hormones, the other you don't have to. I'm not very well versed in the hormonal IUD, so I'm going to say take it up with your doctor and/or other healthcare provider. All IUD's are essentially the same thing: a small device inserted into the opening of the cervix. They are made to block sperm from entering the opening and traveling any further. There are some minor risks involved, like a small amount of spotting and the like. But when inserted and cared for correctly, they are a very effective form of birth control.
Side note: Female Condoms
Female condoms are a lot like regular condoms, but a lot bigger. And more complicated. They look like a long thin plastic baggie. You apply them by opening it up and basically sticking it into your vagina with your finger. Then the guy pretty much fucks the bag. They are not as widely used, and since they're just sitting inside the (probably wet by this time) vagina can sometimes become loose and bunch up. Think about a tall sock falling down your legs. That's pretty much what it looks like. There's also the possibility that with weird folding and angles, one part can be rubbed down while the rest is just fine, and you won't notice that you aren't fully protected. And the guy could accidentally shove his cock outside of the bag, so it would be between the wall of the vagina and the outside of the condom. Because of all of these, I am not a huge fan of female condoms if regular condoms are available. But they do have a very good use!
I have heard of people using female condoms as anal condoms! The anus is a bit more of a uniform shape, and can be a bit more snug. So there's less chance of slippage. For preventing diseases, using a female condom as an anal condom is genius!
I know I did not cover every single method of birth control known to mankind. I skipped over things like spermicides because they can be dangerous, and there are lots of untested home remedies that may or may not work.
Have some safe fun tonight people!!!
-A.
I just wanted to briefly address birth control. A friend of S. and I inspired this one. Her and her boyfriend are sexually active, do not want kids, and are too young and poor to raise one adequately. But so far the only forms of control they've tried is him pulling out right before he orgasms. Let's call them Dumb and Dumber. Dumber (the female) should be more responsible, but from me and S. talking to her, it is obvious that she has not been taught anything about sexuality or the human body at all, let alone birth control. To stop people from being like Dumb and Dumber, I am going to make the following announcement:
SEX COMES WITH RESPONSIBILITIES AND IF YOU DONT RESPECT THEM YOU WILL SUFFER
I am going to list out all the forms of birth control I have heard and learned about. Some of these are bad some are good. I'll be sure to include my notes on each. Please, for the love of pete, if you are going to have sex and don't want a child just yet practice good birth control. Don't be ignorant.
Method number one: Pulling Out
This is the method that will make me give you a stupid nickname on here (like, oh, I dunno, Dumb and Dumber). Pulling out IS NOT A GOOD FORM OF BIRTH CONTROL. It is baaaaad. The male pre-ejaculate, which is the small amount of fluid that leaks from the end of the penis during intense arousal, can contain small amounts of sperm. This fluid does not require an orgasm to discharge, and during extended sessions that small amount can add up. Sometimes men will begin to ejaculate a second or two before the rush of an orgasm. This can mean that he may pull out right before the "big O", but his sperm will be in you nonetheless. And what happens if you two both get caught up in the heat of the moment and forget to make him pull out? If you were both reaching the end of a good long sex session, you were nearing some great orgasms, and you were both really turned on and desperate, it would be easy to say "screw it, just fuck me!". Also a man can accidentally ejaculate near your vagina while he is pulling out or even after he has pulled out. It takes lots of practice to accurately aim ejaculate, and most men have not done any experimentation with that. Maybe he ejaculates at a downward angle? What if some drips off and onto miss vagina down there after he's done shooting his load?
Pulling out has a success rate. It is lower than almost all other birth control methods. Those are the reasons why. It is not a reliable birth control method in any way. The only method less successful than pulling out is cumming and ejaculating inside the girl with no protection and just crossing your fingers that she doesn't get pregnant.
Method number two: Condoms.
Good ol rubbers! These are cheap and generally reliable. Condoms are very effective when used correctly. You want to find one that is made by a trusted brand (if you really aren't sure, go with a large company like Trojan. And try to buy them in a pharmacy or large store. Those vending machines in gas stations are not the place to turn for quality products). Now use it properly! Be sure to get one that will fit well and not be too tight or too loose. Too tight will choke your penis, too loose will let it spray like a fire hose inside the girl. Once you've gotten the fit it's time for application. Take it out of it's little package and throw the wrapping away (no need to litter even in the heat of the moment. And it keeps from advertising to your kids/friends/family that you just had sex). Make sure your penis is at least most of the way hard. If it's not, put the condom aside and get a good blowjob, handjob, or other form or foreplay until you are. Once you have a firm cock, take the little ring of a condom and get to work! pinch the top to create a small pocket. THIS IS IMPORTANT. You don't want the condom to fit snugly all across the head of your cock like you've saran-wrapped it. The condom should be snug to your shaft, but you need to make sure you pinch the top off so there's some excess. Then roll the rest of the covering on. Try practicing on a phallic object if you've never done this before. It'll help you become smoother at applying it when the moment is upon you. You'll look cooler and be safer!
Now I know it's more fun to ride bareback, and condoms can seem expensive. But babies are VERY expensive. And time-consuming. So just weigh it out before you do something impulsive.
Method number three: "The Pill"
This is something you should see a doctor for. Seriously. And I'll tell you why you should.
Contraceptive pills are a great invention. They are for females, and use hormones to inhibit ovulation, which in layman's terms means that it stops the possibility for pregnancy. There are quite a few companies who manufacture these pills, and they have a variety of side effects and ingredients. You should talk to a doctor who knows you to find out which one will be best for you and what the risks are of taking it. I will not pretend to know which one is best for everyone. S. might be able to tell you all more on this later.
The beauty of these is that it's a once-a-day pill that is very effective at preventing pregnancy. You take it in the morning or afternoon daily and you are free to screw around all night long with as much sperm and you can handle. Literally, you can have someone make a creampie inside your pussy and be just fine. No physical protection needed, no condoms to apply, nothing. Just a little pill. Beautiful.
Method number four: Surgery
There are two common and safe surgeries that will basically make you sterile. One is a vasectomy, the other tubal ligation. They close off the tubes that lead from a man's testicles or a woman's ovaries. This method is expensive and has a moderate recovery time after the surgery, but is 100 percent effective for life. So yeah. All good.
Method number five: Intrauterine Device (IUD)
The IUD comes in hormonal and non-hormonal forms. One requires you to take hormones, the other you don't have to. I'm not very well versed in the hormonal IUD, so I'm going to say take it up with your doctor and/or other healthcare provider. All IUD's are essentially the same thing: a small device inserted into the opening of the cervix. They are made to block sperm from entering the opening and traveling any further. There are some minor risks involved, like a small amount of spotting and the like. But when inserted and cared for correctly, they are a very effective form of birth control.
Side note: Female Condoms
Female condoms are a lot like regular condoms, but a lot bigger. And more complicated. They look like a long thin plastic baggie. You apply them by opening it up and basically sticking it into your vagina with your finger. Then the guy pretty much fucks the bag. They are not as widely used, and since they're just sitting inside the (probably wet by this time) vagina can sometimes become loose and bunch up. Think about a tall sock falling down your legs. That's pretty much what it looks like. There's also the possibility that with weird folding and angles, one part can be rubbed down while the rest is just fine, and you won't notice that you aren't fully protected. And the guy could accidentally shove his cock outside of the bag, so it would be between the wall of the vagina and the outside of the condom. Because of all of these, I am not a huge fan of female condoms if regular condoms are available. But they do have a very good use!
I have heard of people using female condoms as anal condoms! The anus is a bit more of a uniform shape, and can be a bit more snug. So there's less chance of slippage. For preventing diseases, using a female condom as an anal condom is genius!
I know I did not cover every single method of birth control known to mankind. I skipped over things like spermicides because they can be dangerous, and there are lots of untested home remedies that may or may not work.
Have some safe fun tonight people!!!
-A.
Friday, December 17, 2010
Hormones, and fantasies-S.
A. has been sick on and off for the last few months, so he hasn't been able to write much lately, and I've had finals, so I've been super busy. But today are my last classes, and we will be posting much more!
Last night, A. and I were feeling really in the mood, and i won't be back in town for another 9 days, so we had some fun on skype... Two days ago, i had told him that as a surprise, for two days, he could order me around. The prospect confused him. He's not used to telling me what to do, and he never tells me what to do. So for the last two days, he really hasn't known what to do about it. So last night, the last night of his surprise, i told him to tell me to do anything his heart desired... he told me to take my top off... I did. He told me to take my bra off... I did. He told me i was being a good slave....
A. told me to touch myself in so many different ways. To press my nipples into my chest... to pinch them... Lick them...
Girls, this was the best surprise i could've ever given him. It was so. Much. Fun. He got me desperate enough to where i WANTED to touch my pussy. So, like a good slave, I asked if i could. At first he said no, so i had begged for it, and he allowed it.... Oh my word, i was dripping wet. i pushed inside myself, and then pulled out and spread my wetness onto my breasts... That drove him wild!i massaged my breasts in front of the camera, and i couldn't help but moan from the site of him rubbing himself. What is it about watching your significant give themselves pleasure that is such a turn on??? I could get off from watching him get off alone.
We went offline, and I called him so we could continue our date night. We jumped right into the rest of our date night. He was distracted for a moment by drama going on in his house, so I effectively distracted him;) I moaned really loud into the receiver, and his breath slightly wavered. I asked him to continue what he was saying, and of course, my moan had caused him to forget.
We had a short fantasy, and by midnight, we had both cum, and were very happy :-) We hadn't had TRUE intimate time in a while, because I was sick, and then he got sick a few days later, so when we came it was sooooo strong. We needed some time like that! It felt amazing to hear his pleasure again. Only 9 more days until i can SEE his pleasure again. We have our Christmas together coming up, and he will love his presents! But I'm sure you aren't interested in the cute ones. I will give information on the sexy part whenever A. has received it.
More later tonight!
P.S., I will be posting more often, because I go on break from my classes today! So starting tonight, I will be posting at least once a day!!
-S.
Last night, A. and I were feeling really in the mood, and i won't be back in town for another 9 days, so we had some fun on skype... Two days ago, i had told him that as a surprise, for two days, he could order me around. The prospect confused him. He's not used to telling me what to do, and he never tells me what to do. So for the last two days, he really hasn't known what to do about it. So last night, the last night of his surprise, i told him to tell me to do anything his heart desired... he told me to take my top off... I did. He told me to take my bra off... I did. He told me i was being a good slave....
A. told me to touch myself in so many different ways. To press my nipples into my chest... to pinch them... Lick them...
Girls, this was the best surprise i could've ever given him. It was so. Much. Fun. He got me desperate enough to where i WANTED to touch my pussy. So, like a good slave, I asked if i could. At first he said no, so i had begged for it, and he allowed it.... Oh my word, i was dripping wet. i pushed inside myself, and then pulled out and spread my wetness onto my breasts... That drove him wild!i massaged my breasts in front of the camera, and i couldn't help but moan from the site of him rubbing himself. What is it about watching your significant give themselves pleasure that is such a turn on??? I could get off from watching him get off alone.
We went offline, and I called him so we could continue our date night. We jumped right into the rest of our date night. He was distracted for a moment by drama going on in his house, so I effectively distracted him;) I moaned really loud into the receiver, and his breath slightly wavered. I asked him to continue what he was saying, and of course, my moan had caused him to forget.
We had a short fantasy, and by midnight, we had both cum, and were very happy :-) We hadn't had TRUE intimate time in a while, because I was sick, and then he got sick a few days later, so when we came it was sooooo strong. We needed some time like that! It felt amazing to hear his pleasure again. Only 9 more days until i can SEE his pleasure again. We have our Christmas together coming up, and he will love his presents! But I'm sure you aren't interested in the cute ones. I will give information on the sexy part whenever A. has received it.
More later tonight!
P.S., I will be posting more often, because I go on break from my classes today! So starting tonight, I will be posting at least once a day!!
-S.
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Intro to Phone Sex - A.
Class is in session. This is just gonna be a post about how to initiate phone sex in your relationship and why you should try it out. So first the why, then the how.
Phone sex is an intimacy that crosses great distances. So many couples table intimacy when one person leaves for a day or more and the other person is not with them. It's easy to talk on the phone, never do anything intimate, and save it all for when they get back. I know that the anticipation and waiting can be so thrilling when you finally see your partner and all those hormones are built up, but in my opinion after about three days waiting is the wrong decision. When looking back at your life, wouldn't you like to know you took as many opportunities as you could to show your partner your love through intimacy?
One of the biggest barriers that couples run up against is that they don't know how to initiate phone sex in their relationship. It can feel awkward or silly at first. I still have moments where initiating it isn't exactly smooth. And even as recently as a week or two ago, I was having awkward feelings during a fantasy and phone sex. It's definitely gotten better over time, but occasionally it's still a weird feeling. It's something new and unnatural for a lot of people. To some it comes naturally. I'm not one of the people to whom it does, so I do not know how that feels.
Step one is to initiate it.
Phone sex is an intimacy that crosses great distances. So many couples table intimacy when one person leaves for a day or more and the other person is not with them. It's easy to talk on the phone, never do anything intimate, and save it all for when they get back. I know that the anticipation and waiting can be so thrilling when you finally see your partner and all those hormones are built up, but in my opinion after about three days waiting is the wrong decision. When looking back at your life, wouldn't you like to know you took as many opportunities as you could to show your partner your love through intimacy?
One of the biggest barriers that couples run up against is that they don't know how to initiate phone sex in their relationship. It can feel awkward or silly at first. I still have moments where initiating it isn't exactly smooth. And even as recently as a week or two ago, I was having awkward feelings during a fantasy and phone sex. It's definitely gotten better over time, but occasionally it's still a weird feeling. It's something new and unnatural for a lot of people. To some it comes naturally. I'm not one of the people to whom it does, so I do not know how that feels.
Step one is to initiate it.
There are some easy ways to do this. For those of you who are REALLY shy, try sending a few surprise sexy texts. Wait until your partner is gone for the day, then send them one or two really hot texts, preferably with as many details about your body and what you want and what you’re thinking as possible. S. and I love to do this to the other when we know they’re busy and have to keep a straight face, like while we’re out to lunch with another couple or when one or both of us are in church. The church one is sooo much fun! It feels so ironic to be horny Christians having a little fantasy during the sermon! And it makes any lesson from the pastor a bit more interesting. For those of you who don’t know what to say in a text, follow this outline to begin with:
“I was just thinking about your (hot adjective) (Sexy body part) and how much I want to (kiss, lick, caress, massage, rub, fuck, ect.) it. I’m thinking about you (sexy noise, like moan or growl) as I get more (Sexy adjective for arousal, like turned on, aroused, horny, desperate, ect) until I can’t take it anymore and I (Insert intense sexual act here). Have a great day honey! =)”
After that you can make up your own. Just get creative, and ACT. If you don’t know what to say make some sexy crap up and blurt it out in text. Choose random actions and body parts, like with sex dice.
Once you graduate to real phone sex, it’s pretty easy to initiate. Here are a few tips:
Take baths at the same time. This will relax you and set a sexy atmosphere.
Let out what you’re feeling!!! The more noise you make moaning, the better your sex will be!
When you’re first starting out, try mutual masturbation and describing what you’re doing.
If that’s too difficult, let someone else do the hard work. Trade off reading paragraphs out of some erotica (finding some stuff online will be easiest, unless you both buy/rent the same book).
Make up your own erotica! Have a fantasy, trade off, and pretend like your reading some hot erotica starring the two of you, but make it up as you go! This is me and S.’s favorite form of phone sex! It’s adventurous, unpredictable, fun, and sexy! We always decide on a detailed setting and what clothes we are wearing to make the fantasy more vivid.
When having phone sex, use your imagination! If your partner says “I’m grabbing my breast and leaning back”, picture her (or whatever movie star you fancy, if that’s how you roll) really leaning back and moving her hand slowly to her chest and massaging her breast. Zoom in on it in your head. Imagine it rising and falling with her breath. So often we become lazy with our fantasies. Break that habit! Make this something you truly strive to imagine!
Set aside that time. Get any other urgent discussions out of the way before you start. And do NOT start onto a tangent. Especially girls with a male partner. What you females might not understand is that this is even harder for a man to do than a woman. There are studies out there that prove it. In today’s age when men are supposed to have a six pack, ten inch cocks, perfect hair, and preferably be a vampire, it’s hard for guys to feel sexy. If you go off on ANY tangent, unless it’s a sexy one, you will kill his boner (yes, guys don’t walk around with constant erections no matter if you talk about boobs or politics). He will feel like you don’t want him at all, no matter how good the fantasy was up until that point. As soon as you start talking about your family or a TV show, you will have to work really hard to get the fantasy going again. And the longer you spend on the tangent, the worse it will be for him and you and your night.
Above all, let go!!! Act like you’re a porn star for the night! Put on a mask! You’re on the phone, which allows you to let your embarrassing sexy side out. And help your partner out. Make them comfortable, and respond positively to their efforts to be erotic and sensual on the phone. Don’t laugh or mock or just be like “Oh, is that it?” Be turned on! They are focusing on your pleasure! Don’t take that for granted, ever. And go have fun! This is a fun, sometimes silly, sometimes OMG hot pastime and way to have your intimacy span miles and miles. Have fun, and go rack up some minutes on your phones!
-A.
P.S. Ever thought of having some phone sex foreplay? Go into different rooms, close the doors, and have phone sex. When you’re both just too desperate, one of you quietly and without telling the other go and sneak into their room. They’ll see you open the door, and I promise you it will be a hot night for you both!
Monday, December 13, 2010
Kissing! -S.
Something that I can’t get enough of is A.’s lips. They are so soft, and big, and oh my word, perfect! He knows just how to use them, too! He can kiss me any way, and any where, and without fail it will either make me totally melt, or get really turned on by it! There are certain ways he kisses me, too… He can be so gentle that it can cause me to just lie there, calmer than I can remember…. He can be really rough, and it’s mind blowing! A. knows just what to do to me to get me in any mood!!!
One thing I love is how A. is the most gentle person… He can kiss me, and hold me in the sweetest ways… I know that one day, when he proposes to me, it will be so sweet just because that’s his nature around me. I love it so much!!! You guys normally don’t hear about it, but he cradles me, and cuddles with me, and we’re all around a snuggly, cutesy couple! We love our physical life, but we also love our sweet, gentle life together. And that’s all I will say about that for now! J But if there’s any questions or comments, please don’t hesitate to comment!
A. and I have a super hot physical life, as you can gather! People ask us a lot why we wait to have sex… We both have made the decision to wait until we are married. We want to have that special gift(our virginity), to share with each other on our wedding night. Yes, we definitely have gotten some experience on the way there! But we have remained virgins until marriage. We are both super determined, and when we are focused on something, it’s going to happen! While we wait for our wedding night, we have experimented on a lot, and have created a series of boundaries so that we don’t “get caught up in the mood.” We do however know a lot about sex. Yes, we are virgins. Yes, we know a lot about sex. We both are total sex nerds. We know the statistics, we know the facts, and friends come to us with questions about sex, positions, birth control, pregnancy, what to do to stimulate specific body parts, and so much more! Both of us have spoken for hours to friends about things of this nature!!! It’s fun for us!!! We have searched different ways to kiss, and have found so many new ways!
We can do the Spiderman kiss
The sandwich kiss, as A. calls it(You kiss where one person has one, or both lips inside the other persons).
The head on kiss(both parties lips touch head on).
kissing on the cheek(obvious, of course).
Kissing on the neck, which i never thought i would personally like. My friend talked A. and I into trying it, and i cannot get enough of it!!!!!!!!!!!
Biting into someone's neck, also known as the vampire kiss.
Kissing each others ears. equally as hot as kissing each others neck! Such a turn on.
Biting or sucking on each other's lips. It's soooooooo hot.
Sucking/kissing the ear lobe. Major turn on.
Kissing in the rain is really sweet :)
Kissing underwater is so much fun!!!!
The classic French kiss. Brings a whole new meaning to the saying "tongue in cheek." I've heard of some pretty horrible stories of the French kiss, so if you click the link attached to "stories" it will take you to some tips.
The butterfly kiss is when you flutter your eyelashes either against the other person's eyelashes, or against another persons body somewhere. Most of the time this is done on the other persons cheek.
The eskimo kiss is when you rub your nose against the other person. It's really a cutesy kiss!
The secret message kiss is when you spell out a secret message with your tongue against someone else's tongue. It happens in the middle of French kissing
The lizard kiss, which involves flicking your tongue in and out of your partner's mouth in tight, quick strokes.
-S.
Mini Erotica! From what i think A. sees.... -S.
Imagine this.... The doors are open leading to a balcony... The room is enormous... I've gathered that the room is a bedroom, hence the huge bed sitting against the wall... The bed is adorned with black bars, and wooden black flowers.... It has silky golden sheets, with deep red pillows of the same fabric... The black curtains are flowing in the breeze... You can see the moon, and stars through the open doors...
Red flower petals cover the floor, while white and red candles adorn every surface, every window sill... The room smells of vanilla, roses, and sex... My love walks up silently behind me, and puts are dainty arm through mine... Her bouncy curls cascade down her back, and her silvery blue eyes gaze outside... I can't take my eyes off of her.... S. looks up at me, and I can't decide what to do! She's wearing a hot red dress ... She's been out dancing with her girl friends all night. The dress could easily slide off of her breasts... off of her whole body, come to think about it. she has her silver high heels in her hands... these six inch little things... I wonder how she walks in those? Much less, dances... I lean down slowly, and kiss her slightly red, damp lips... they're warm... why are they wet? and red? She hadn't left with red lips....I asked her about it... Mean while we walked to the bed together... I can see her nipples standing at attention. No bra? Didn't she leave with her bra on...?
She told me all about her night... All about the sexy girl she met with gorgeous brown eyes, straight brunette colored hair, and a killer body, complete with 32D breasts. How she saw her dancing with another girl, and how sensual she moved...
I asked her to show me this little dance... She did, of course! The way she moved her body... It was so slow.. The red dress barely hung over her pale frame.... I could see the curves of her 32 C breasts... I caught a glimpse of her nipple, and i was ready to take her... I pulled her towards me, and pulled the blood red dress off of her shoulders... I kissed her delicate, pink nipples... Mmmm, they taste sweet... her sweat is always sweet on her breasts....I pull the dress completely off to find that S. wore no underwear at all.... In a strange way, that's hot to me....
S. is already wet, and ready for me... I slid off my clothes, and pressed my lips gently to hers.... The way our body's move together is beautiful.... I kiss down her neck, and take a small bite.... The moan she sends my hormones wild through my body... My skin heats up, and I can feel S. pulsing.... I slide into her, and she takes me deeper than I've ever been before.... I pull in and out of her slowly.... The look in her eyes is that of pure ecstasy. I feel her pulse harder and harder as we both come closer to orgasm together....
We look each other in the eyes for one moment, and then we cum harder than we ever have before...
The rest of our night was spent snuggling, and holding each other while drifting to sleep....
-S.
Red flower petals cover the floor, while white and red candles adorn every surface, every window sill... The room smells of vanilla, roses, and sex... My love walks up silently behind me, and puts are dainty arm through mine... Her bouncy curls cascade down her back, and her silvery blue eyes gaze outside... I can't take my eyes off of her.... S. looks up at me, and I can't decide what to do! She's wearing a hot red dress ... She's been out dancing with her girl friends all night. The dress could easily slide off of her breasts... off of her whole body, come to think about it. she has her silver high heels in her hands... these six inch little things... I wonder how she walks in those? Much less, dances... I lean down slowly, and kiss her slightly red, damp lips... they're warm... why are they wet? and red? She hadn't left with red lips....I asked her about it... Mean while we walked to the bed together... I can see her nipples standing at attention. No bra? Didn't she leave with her bra on...?
She told me all about her night... All about the sexy girl she met with gorgeous brown eyes, straight brunette colored hair, and a killer body, complete with 32D breasts. How she saw her dancing with another girl, and how sensual she moved...
I asked her to show me this little dance... She did, of course! The way she moved her body... It was so slow.. The red dress barely hung over her pale frame.... I could see the curves of her 32 C breasts... I caught a glimpse of her nipple, and i was ready to take her... I pulled her towards me, and pulled the blood red dress off of her shoulders... I kissed her delicate, pink nipples... Mmmm, they taste sweet... her sweat is always sweet on her breasts....I pull the dress completely off to find that S. wore no underwear at all.... In a strange way, that's hot to me....
S. is already wet, and ready for me... I slid off my clothes, and pressed my lips gently to hers.... The way our body's move together is beautiful.... I kiss down her neck, and take a small bite.... The moan she sends my hormones wild through my body... My skin heats up, and I can feel S. pulsing.... I slide into her, and she takes me deeper than I've ever been before.... I pull in and out of her slowly.... The look in her eyes is that of pure ecstasy. I feel her pulse harder and harder as we both come closer to orgasm together....
We look each other in the eyes for one moment, and then we cum harder than we ever have before...
The rest of our night was spent snuggling, and holding each other while drifting to sleep....
-S.
Cheesecake (Erotica) - A.
I'm waking up with the moonrise. Either I'm up very early or very late. I look at the clock. 10:17 PM. Late. I've successfully slept through most of Saturday. Wow.
I stretch out my arms and hit the wall. I'm laying sideways. Why? I rub my eyes and feel the weight of sleep lift off of me. I'm starting to remember.
Friday night. Sign in as a chaperon. Open the youth building. 9 pm to 11 pm paintball. herd kids around field. Run more than I have all year. Change out of grass stained pants. 1 am to 3 am talent show. Judge. Give awards. Drink seventh cup of coffee. Herd kids more. Stop make out session. Run obstacle course. 5 am. Cook giant batch of eggs while Stacie makes pancakes. Show movie. Wait till parents come. 8 am. Drive home. 9 am. wait for caffeine to wear off. 10:25 am. Fall asleep.
God, did all of that happen in one night? I'm sore all through my back and arms. I can feel a bruise on my right shoulder blade and my mouth tastes like stale soda. I pull myself up and sit on the edge of the bed and try to clear the fog surrounding me. I make a mental note to take off my jeans next time I collapse into bed, since mine are muddy and half down my hips thanks to my sleep-time movement and an undone button. I stand up, feeling muscles protest to their early (late?) morning exertion. I feel better and better as I move more, letting my limbs stretch out and feeling new energy pour into me. I check for damage in the mirror above my dresser. Not too bad. I actually look pretty good after a night of physical exertion. My muscles are large from overuse in the paintball game and my whole body looks pretty nice. At least something came out of a night of corralling kids. I see my discarded shirt on the floor, putting a nice mud stain on the carpet. I sigh and bend down to pick it up before I get in trouble.
White petal.
A white flower petal lying on the floor. A pristine and fresh white flower petal. On the ground.
My scrambled mind is having trouble making sense of this. I'm useless at identifying flowers, so I have no clue what this delicate little shape belongs to. But it's new. And not alone! One... two.... a whole trail of petals.... Hmmmmm....
I stand up with some effort and look at this new puzzle. A trail of flower petals. In my room. My muddled mind concludes that S. must have done this, because I sure didn't and I don't think anyone else was here. I also figured the most productive thing would be for me to follow the trail.
I walk out into the hallway, where the trail snakes like an elegant pathway across the simple carpet, transforming it into a new and exciting wonderland. I follow it into the entryway for our guest bedroom. A big red bow is in the middle of the closed door. I open it slowly. And I'm not an idiot. By now I know S. has done this for me, and I'm eagerly anticipating some scene. It plays out in my head: I open the door to find S. lying on the large guest bed. Her arms spread out with her fingertips lightly grazing the white sheets. One leg straight, the other knee bent up. Her eyes just oozes sensuality. I walk to the side of the bed, and from there sink into a long night of lovemaking. Perfect.
I open the door to a very different scene.
I'm first struck by the three very large blowups of some nude pictures I had taken of S. They hang from the wall behind the head of the bed, tacked into place. They're black and white and filled with elaborate poses to emphasize all my favorite angles of her. The bed above which they hang is pristine and very empty. No S. At least, not here.... I can make out a muffled giggle from the bathroom door. A little shower action sounds lovely right now. I chuckle and make a move to cross to the door and open it into the aforementioned land of milk, honey, and sex. My phone, still in my pocket, buzzes.
"not yet. gttng ready."
I send a reply.
"how long???"
"ull see ;)"
"so i just get to wait here?"
"yep. i made the bed 4 u. lie down and relax and ill tell u when im rdy :)"
I figure I should do as I'm told. Not just because this has potential to be some enormously hot surprise, but also because I ate the last piece of cheesecake two nights ago while S. was out with some friends, and this could be some kind of payback. Time to play good boy, at least until I can declare the area safe.
I sit cross legged on the foot of the bed facing the sexy posters. If I have to wait, I'm going to wait with boobs to look at.
After a small pause, my phone vibrates.
"white or black?"
"white or black wht?"
"ull see ;) white or black?"
"ummmm eenie meenie miny white"
"k! only a few more minutes till u get an AMAZING night!"
So it's not about the cheesecake. Sweet. Inner high-five.
Five minutes more pass. I memorize the first picture and am working my eyes over the second when I hear three knocks on the bathroom door. I get up and walk slowly and quietly to the door like I'm about to enter a bank vault to steal money, slowly turn the knob, and enter.
S. is leaning against the wall with her hips cocked like an old-school burlesque star. She's wearing one of my shirts, a long sleeved white button-down that I wore three days ago and left in the laundry room. She said it was at the cleaners. Clearly I'll have to take it myself if I ever want it to myself again. When S. claims clothing, it is hers for life.
It hangs loose around her frame, the bottom just skimming her thighs.
My heart races. Her eyes are drawing me in like a starving man to food.
I feel my pulse race and butterflies build up inside.
My inner animal is coming out.
My legs lightly flex, ready to spring.
My shoulders are iron, my arms bronze.
My eyes match hers for a minute as we stand still, breathing heavily with the atmosphere of lust swirling in the hot air. I look across the room. Candles burn in tucked away nooks and crannies of the room. White petals are scattered evenly across the floor. More float on a freshly drawn bath. Opposite the tub, our glass panoramic shower is opened and dripping. I suspect S. let the water run to warm it. Our sink that sits on the far wall between the two is cleared of all hygiene products. No shampoo or soap bottles clutter the shower either. Everything is cleaned off and devoid of anything everyday and ordinary. In their place are a few items: a magic wand-style vibrator by the sink, a smooth clear suction cup dildo on the shower rack, two large glasses of wine and a bottle of water on the edge of the tub.
The wine is a nice touch.
I walk closer. She beacons me in. I step again. Her finger says "come here". Step. Step. Step.
I can smell her. It makes me dizzy. She smells of soft perfume and smooth skin. My hand finally reaches her shoulder, I step, she moves, we're kissing.... tighter.... longer.... harder..... moans.... caress.... press.... intertwine.... I know this dance well.
She pulls away an inch. I look at her face, my hands on either side of her head, my body pulsing against her against the wall. "Tub," S. whispers huskily, "and get those pants off."
Hard to argue with that offer.
I'm sitting up to my chest in water. S. straightens her leg horizontally in front of my face, dropping her toe into the water slowly, forcing me to salivate over her thighs. How many times have I felt that skin as soft as silk? Doesn't matter. I'm never going to grow tired of that sensation. Her foot slowly touches the bottom of the tub on my left side. Her other leg repeats that gloriously sensual move to come to rest at my right. I lean back and relax. Whatever happens next, I'm pretty sure I will enjoy it.
S. slowly bends her legs. The shirt is expertly positioned over her crotch the whole way down. Damn, she can tease me. Her body slowly comes down to rest on my lap. She leans down to kiss me softly, her hands on my chest. My cock is hard against my boxer briefs, which are skintight from the water. She kisses me harder, her hair falling to my shoulders. I moan a little bit, and she takes the hint and thrusts her hips straight down into my lap.
Fireworks. All the anticipation releases like flames leaping. I lose sight of the world for a moment as intense pleasure rakes my body. Between being teased all evening and having gone over 48 hours without an orgasm, my body is ready for her.
Her hips begin to circle. I lean my head back and moan, which makes her circle slower and more firmly. Her grinding is driving me wild, and I reach down to stroke her thighs. My fingers slide over her slick and wet skin, moving towards her hips, towards that gateway to pleasure. Her circles stop and she carefully lifts my head to meet her eyes.
"Do you want me?"
"Yes...." I half moan.
She smiles wickedly,
"Then take me."
To be continued...
-A.
P.S. Part two is HERE!!
I stretch out my arms and hit the wall. I'm laying sideways. Why? I rub my eyes and feel the weight of sleep lift off of me. I'm starting to remember.
Friday night. Sign in as a chaperon. Open the youth building. 9 pm to 11 pm paintball. herd kids around field. Run more than I have all year. Change out of grass stained pants. 1 am to 3 am talent show. Judge. Give awards. Drink seventh cup of coffee. Herd kids more. Stop make out session. Run obstacle course. 5 am. Cook giant batch of eggs while Stacie makes pancakes. Show movie. Wait till parents come. 8 am. Drive home. 9 am. wait for caffeine to wear off. 10:25 am. Fall asleep.
God, did all of that happen in one night? I'm sore all through my back and arms. I can feel a bruise on my right shoulder blade and my mouth tastes like stale soda. I pull myself up and sit on the edge of the bed and try to clear the fog surrounding me. I make a mental note to take off my jeans next time I collapse into bed, since mine are muddy and half down my hips thanks to my sleep-time movement and an undone button. I stand up, feeling muscles protest to their early (late?) morning exertion. I feel better and better as I move more, letting my limbs stretch out and feeling new energy pour into me. I check for damage in the mirror above my dresser. Not too bad. I actually look pretty good after a night of physical exertion. My muscles are large from overuse in the paintball game and my whole body looks pretty nice. At least something came out of a night of corralling kids. I see my discarded shirt on the floor, putting a nice mud stain on the carpet. I sigh and bend down to pick it up before I get in trouble.
White petal.
A white flower petal lying on the floor. A pristine and fresh white flower petal. On the ground.
My scrambled mind is having trouble making sense of this. I'm useless at identifying flowers, so I have no clue what this delicate little shape belongs to. But it's new. And not alone! One... two.... a whole trail of petals.... Hmmmmm....
I stand up with some effort and look at this new puzzle. A trail of flower petals. In my room. My muddled mind concludes that S. must have done this, because I sure didn't and I don't think anyone else was here. I also figured the most productive thing would be for me to follow the trail.
I walk out into the hallway, where the trail snakes like an elegant pathway across the simple carpet, transforming it into a new and exciting wonderland. I follow it into the entryway for our guest bedroom. A big red bow is in the middle of the closed door. I open it slowly. And I'm not an idiot. By now I know S. has done this for me, and I'm eagerly anticipating some scene. It plays out in my head: I open the door to find S. lying on the large guest bed. Her arms spread out with her fingertips lightly grazing the white sheets. One leg straight, the other knee bent up. Her eyes just oozes sensuality. I walk to the side of the bed, and from there sink into a long night of lovemaking. Perfect.
I open the door to a very different scene.
I'm first struck by the three very large blowups of some nude pictures I had taken of S. They hang from the wall behind the head of the bed, tacked into place. They're black and white and filled with elaborate poses to emphasize all my favorite angles of her. The bed above which they hang is pristine and very empty. No S. At least, not here.... I can make out a muffled giggle from the bathroom door. A little shower action sounds lovely right now. I chuckle and make a move to cross to the door and open it into the aforementioned land of milk, honey, and sex. My phone, still in my pocket, buzzes.
"not yet. gttng ready."
I send a reply.
"how long???"
"ull see ;)"
"so i just get to wait here?"
"yep. i made the bed 4 u. lie down and relax and ill tell u when im rdy :)"
I figure I should do as I'm told. Not just because this has potential to be some enormously hot surprise, but also because I ate the last piece of cheesecake two nights ago while S. was out with some friends, and this could be some kind of payback. Time to play good boy, at least until I can declare the area safe.
I sit cross legged on the foot of the bed facing the sexy posters. If I have to wait, I'm going to wait with boobs to look at.
After a small pause, my phone vibrates.
"white or black?"
"white or black wht?"
"ull see ;) white or black?"
"ummmm eenie meenie miny white"
"k! only a few more minutes till u get an AMAZING night!"
So it's not about the cheesecake. Sweet. Inner high-five.
Five minutes more pass. I memorize the first picture and am working my eyes over the second when I hear three knocks on the bathroom door. I get up and walk slowly and quietly to the door like I'm about to enter a bank vault to steal money, slowly turn the knob, and enter.
S. is leaning against the wall with her hips cocked like an old-school burlesque star. She's wearing one of my shirts, a long sleeved white button-down that I wore three days ago and left in the laundry room. She said it was at the cleaners. Clearly I'll have to take it myself if I ever want it to myself again. When S. claims clothing, it is hers for life.
It hangs loose around her frame, the bottom just skimming her thighs.
My heart races. Her eyes are drawing me in like a starving man to food.
I feel my pulse race and butterflies build up inside.
My inner animal is coming out.
My legs lightly flex, ready to spring.
My shoulders are iron, my arms bronze.
My eyes match hers for a minute as we stand still, breathing heavily with the atmosphere of lust swirling in the hot air. I look across the room. Candles burn in tucked away nooks and crannies of the room. White petals are scattered evenly across the floor. More float on a freshly drawn bath. Opposite the tub, our glass panoramic shower is opened and dripping. I suspect S. let the water run to warm it. Our sink that sits on the far wall between the two is cleared of all hygiene products. No shampoo or soap bottles clutter the shower either. Everything is cleaned off and devoid of anything everyday and ordinary. In their place are a few items: a magic wand-style vibrator by the sink, a smooth clear suction cup dildo on the shower rack, two large glasses of wine and a bottle of water on the edge of the tub.
The wine is a nice touch.
I walk closer. She beacons me in. I step again. Her finger says "come here". Step. Step. Step.
I can smell her. It makes me dizzy. She smells of soft perfume and smooth skin. My hand finally reaches her shoulder, I step, she moves, we're kissing.... tighter.... longer.... harder..... moans.... caress.... press.... intertwine.... I know this dance well.
She pulls away an inch. I look at her face, my hands on either side of her head, my body pulsing against her against the wall. "Tub," S. whispers huskily, "and get those pants off."
Hard to argue with that offer.
I'm sitting up to my chest in water. S. straightens her leg horizontally in front of my face, dropping her toe into the water slowly, forcing me to salivate over her thighs. How many times have I felt that skin as soft as silk? Doesn't matter. I'm never going to grow tired of that sensation. Her foot slowly touches the bottom of the tub on my left side. Her other leg repeats that gloriously sensual move to come to rest at my right. I lean back and relax. Whatever happens next, I'm pretty sure I will enjoy it.
S. slowly bends her legs. The shirt is expertly positioned over her crotch the whole way down. Damn, she can tease me. Her body slowly comes down to rest on my lap. She leans down to kiss me softly, her hands on my chest. My cock is hard against my boxer briefs, which are skintight from the water. She kisses me harder, her hair falling to my shoulders. I moan a little bit, and she takes the hint and thrusts her hips straight down into my lap.
Fireworks. All the anticipation releases like flames leaping. I lose sight of the world for a moment as intense pleasure rakes my body. Between being teased all evening and having gone over 48 hours without an orgasm, my body is ready for her.
Her hips begin to circle. I lean my head back and moan, which makes her circle slower and more firmly. Her grinding is driving me wild, and I reach down to stroke her thighs. My fingers slide over her slick and wet skin, moving towards her hips, towards that gateway to pleasure. Her circles stop and she carefully lifts my head to meet her eyes.
"Do you want me?"
"Yes...." I half moan.
She smiles wickedly,
"Then take me."
To be continued...
-A.
P.S. Part two is HERE!!
Thursday, December 9, 2010
White T-Shirts, and Erotica part one-S.
Yes. Us bisexual girls do think about the classic white t-shirt on a girl! To be more specific, the WET white t-shirt on a girl! It's very sexy! I have some friends who I'm attracted to(yeah, i am attracted to some of my girl friends. bite me), who i would LOVE to see in a wet white t-shirt! It's really hot! I, like A., am a boob girl! I love boobs! There is something just oh so sexy, and classic about the wet white shirt! Think about it.... If you have a girlfriend, or a wife, or you're bisexual, and have a girl you are attracted to... Think about her. In a dripping white shirt. Nothing on underneath. Doesn't that turn you on at all????? I dare you to say no.
A lot of people(especially straight women), do not understand what the big deal about having a soaking wet shirt on.... Imagine this.... The hottest girl you know walks up to in a wet white t-shirt.... The shirt is stretched over ever inch of her sexy body... You can see the shape of her nipples standing tall as the cold fabric wraps around them.... You see every curve... Every part of her torso....
Woo! That. definitely has me hot and bothered! Do you see why this comes off as super hot to guys? As i bisexual girl who loves boobs, yes. It's REALLY hot.
I have this little fantasy... The star of this fantasy will be whoever I'm in the mood for(One of my "girls," somebody A. and I fantasize about, ext) today, let's just do this as my alter ego for today. Her name is Bubbles She's a gorgeous blonde.... Big, curly hair, and D-Cup breasts... She's standing in my shower.... It's a huge shower! Like, one of those porno movie showers that can fit 10 people comfortably. I walk in on her, in a sexy white dress... It's pressed against every curve of her body.... It conforms to her breasts, and butt.... The outline of her nipples easily visible through the dress, and every perfect curve pops out... It's like her perfect body is just waaaaaiting for me to stroke it... touch it... Greedily grab it... All that i can think about is those curves... Water dripping down from the tips of her breasts, and falling over.... Bubbles hair is mussed up... Her cheeks rosy with the steam in the shower.... She soaps herself up hot body up, and it drives me WIIIILD for her.... I want her... There's nothing else on my mind except for her curves, and the way this perfect white dress attaches to her body like glue...
I strip off every thing I'm wearing for her... Slip into the shower as she allows the water to drip off her body.... I've come up behind her, and pulled her beautiful blonde hair aside... I massage her long lean back with soap in hand.... The whole shower just WREAKS with the smell of sex... My guest star turns around, and kisses me hard.... the water drips in betweens the tiny gap our faces make... We can't help but touch each other... I move my hand sinuously slow up her legs, over her sexy stomach, and cup them around her perfect, round breasts... Our tongues touch, and i can't help but moan from the way her hot skin feels against mine...
I pull her down to my height, and bite her neck... The moan she gives in return is well worth the effort... I've begun to stimulate her nipples by licking them, and moving my tongue in sexy circles.... Bubbles bright emerald colored eyes roll back in her head from the sensation... Switching between nibbling lightly on her nipple, and sucking on it, I look up at her, loving the look on her face...
To be continued.....
-S.
A lot of people(especially straight women), do not understand what the big deal about having a soaking wet shirt on.... Imagine this.... The hottest girl you know walks up to in a wet white t-shirt.... The shirt is stretched over ever inch of her sexy body... You can see the shape of her nipples standing tall as the cold fabric wraps around them.... You see every curve... Every part of her torso....
Woo! That. definitely has me hot and bothered! Do you see why this comes off as super hot to guys? As i bisexual girl who loves boobs, yes. It's REALLY hot.
I have this little fantasy... The star of this fantasy will be whoever I'm in the mood for(One of my "girls," somebody A. and I fantasize about, ext) today, let's just do this as my alter ego for today. Her name is Bubbles She's a gorgeous blonde.... Big, curly hair, and D-Cup breasts... She's standing in my shower.... It's a huge shower! Like, one of those porno movie showers that can fit 10 people comfortably. I walk in on her, in a sexy white dress... It's pressed against every curve of her body.... It conforms to her breasts, and butt.... The outline of her nipples easily visible through the dress, and every perfect curve pops out... It's like her perfect body is just waaaaaiting for me to stroke it... touch it... Greedily grab it... All that i can think about is those curves... Water dripping down from the tips of her breasts, and falling over.... Bubbles hair is mussed up... Her cheeks rosy with the steam in the shower.... She soaps herself up hot body up, and it drives me WIIIILD for her.... I want her... There's nothing else on my mind except for her curves, and the way this perfect white dress attaches to her body like glue...
I strip off every thing I'm wearing for her... Slip into the shower as she allows the water to drip off her body.... I've come up behind her, and pulled her beautiful blonde hair aside... I massage her long lean back with soap in hand.... The whole shower just WREAKS with the smell of sex... My guest star turns around, and kisses me hard.... the water drips in betweens the tiny gap our faces make... We can't help but touch each other... I move my hand sinuously slow up her legs, over her sexy stomach, and cup them around her perfect, round breasts... Our tongues touch, and i can't help but moan from the way her hot skin feels against mine...
I pull her down to my height, and bite her neck... The moan she gives in return is well worth the effort... I've begun to stimulate her nipples by licking them, and moving my tongue in sexy circles.... Bubbles bright emerald colored eyes roll back in her head from the sensation... Switching between nibbling lightly on her nipple, and sucking on it, I look up at her, loving the look on her face...
To be continued.....
-S.
Changes! - A.
Hey everyone! There are a few changes to the site, so here's a quick overview:
We have a poll!!! Please vote on it! Since our site traffic is small but steady, I am leaving it open till Christmas eve, when I will post a new survey. These are to get an idea of the opinions of our readers, so let your voice be heard! And as always be sure to comment or message us (preferably message. comments can get messy).
We have monetized our blog! This does mean ads will appear beneath our posts, but no where else (no annoying ones on the side bar blocking everything, or banners on the top throwing off the flow of the page design). We did want to cash in on the site's success but with minimal intrusion to the reader. We hope it goes over well and that the ads are interesting!
We revised the "Archives" and "Categories" blocks on the left hand side to be much easier to navigate. We are going to try and put lots of new cool little blocks with games, surveys, and links to good sites for sex-positive information! I will also include links to the Sex is Fun Podcast, Smitten Kitten Store, National STI (Sexually Transmitted Infection) databases, and a website with information on phthalates.
-A
We have a poll!!! Please vote on it! Since our site traffic is small but steady, I am leaving it open till Christmas eve, when I will post a new survey. These are to get an idea of the opinions of our readers, so let your voice be heard! And as always be sure to comment or message us (preferably message. comments can get messy).
We have monetized our blog! This does mean ads will appear beneath our posts, but no where else (no annoying ones on the side bar blocking everything, or banners on the top throwing off the flow of the page design). We did want to cash in on the site's success but with minimal intrusion to the reader. We hope it goes over well and that the ads are interesting!
We revised the "Archives" and "Categories" blocks on the left hand side to be much easier to navigate. We are going to try and put lots of new cool little blocks with games, surveys, and links to good sites for sex-positive information! I will also include links to the Sex is Fun Podcast, Smitten Kitten Store, National STI (Sexually Transmitted Infection) databases, and a website with information on phthalates.
-A
Make up Sex- S.
Last night, A. and I got in our first REAL fight.... Let me start from the beginning, and explain...
I lost an astounding eleven pounds from being sick! I threw up so much, and i couldn't eat anything. So I'm thinner than i used to be, and I'm already really thin. I kept saying to A. how gross it was, and generally very mean things about myself, that he didn't agree with... Being the amazing, loving boyfriend he is, he called me beautiful, and sexy, and all of those kind of compliments. So, on Skype last night, i had said "do you want to see my nasty stomach?" and it really upset him... It was unfair of me to hold myself to a different standard, you see? I never let him tell me that he looks bad…. He’s absolutely perfect!!!!!!! So my going on and on about how ugly I felt was not fair to him…. It sparked a “fight”(or as much of a fight as A. in a can get in).
When we made up, I looked at him, and in a sweet voice, said “…Can we have make up sex tonight..?” I had showed him my stomach, and my bare breasts, and he couldn’t help but touch himself! He got super turned on, and said he had felt the strongest rush he had ever felt. In his words, I was “the sexiest I have ever been.” My best girl friend even said “hot damn, beautiful!” to a picture of me that I had him show her of my stomach(let it be known that my best friend is GORGEOUS!!! She is the bestest best girl friend, EVER!!!). So I told him to take a picture on his phone of me standing there, holding my shirt up for him, he can see EVERYTHING. Now, my reason for this will come up in a little bit.
Oh. My. Word. I will never be able to effectively describe to you how incredibly sexy, and beautiful, and perfect our make up “sex” was. His moans were sooooo sexy! My body was writhing with pleasure(and I could tell his was too!). I told him to pull up the topless picture, and as soon as he got it up he let out this omgggg it was the sexiest thing I have ever heard. He honestly loved the way my body looked! It gave him pleasure!!!! I knew in that moment that, yeah, my body is sexy to him! It comes off as sexy!!! I’m sexy??????? I am sexy! Wow.
Make up sex is the hottest. Thing. EVER. Especially when you haven’t had that kind of interaction with your significant other for various reasons(mine being I was sick). It bonds you… Brings you closer together as a couple! Yes, I know it wasn’t real sex complete with the ohhhhh so amazing, and desirable penetration, but it was still the incredible phone sex(just to brag…. I have the hottest boyfriend ever!!!!!!!!!) that A. and I love, and really need as a long distance, touchy feely couple.
Last night, I was so sweaty, and hot, and wet from all of A.’s moans. If any girl besides me is lucky enough to even over hear him moan, they would understand why! And his growls… OH. MY. WORD. There is no way to tell you how hot it made me feel when he growled “I love you.” It was seriously one of the sexiest things I had ever heard! Girls, BEG your guy to do this for you. It doesn’t sound remotely enjoyable to some girls. TRUST ME. It is incredible, and intoxicating, and ohhhhhh myyy. Do it. Now.
Guys…. DO IT. Listen to your girlfriend. When she says she wants to try something, try it no matter how ridiculous it may sound, and no matter how much you think you might embarrass yourself. DO. IT. If you don’t like it, you don’t have to do it again! Just try things once.
The thing about make up sex…. Make up sex is getting rid of that anger…. That frustration… That’s why it has the tendency of being so much more aggressive then regular sex, skype sex, or phone sex. It’s all hormones! Of course, there’s tons of love involved with it(if you are a couple in love. Either way, there are feelings involved), and it becomes a very erotic experience for both parties! I would love if A. and I could have make up sex, without the fight before hand, but the only way to achieve that is to go without intimate time for a long period, which make us both cranky(like, imagine standing in front of your sig other, naked, and he has a hard on, and you’re dripping wet, but you CANNOT touch him/her. That’s what it’s like being us. All. The. Time).
My main point is that make up sex is hot. After a fight with your significant other, go and make love all night, as sweetly or aggressively as you want. You might still feel angry after a fight, and that’s hormones at work. Not the kind of hormones I talk about on here, the kind that make you angry. Get rid of them! Put on sexy, black 6 inch high heels, and nothing along with that, and totally go at it! You will feel all better by the end of it, and there is absolutely no way that you two would even be able to comprehend the idea of what on earth that fight was about afterwards! Of course, you need to work out fights, and do that before you have make up sex, or else you might start the fight back up again(and as amazing as make up sex is, it’s not worth having I fight with the one you love!).
Now go!!! Make up!!!!!
-S.
I lost an astounding eleven pounds from being sick! I threw up so much, and i couldn't eat anything. So I'm thinner than i used to be, and I'm already really thin. I kept saying to A. how gross it was, and generally very mean things about myself, that he didn't agree with... Being the amazing, loving boyfriend he is, he called me beautiful, and sexy, and all of those kind of compliments. So, on Skype last night, i had said "do you want to see my nasty stomach?" and it really upset him... It was unfair of me to hold myself to a different standard, you see? I never let him tell me that he looks bad…. He’s absolutely perfect!!!!!!! So my going on and on about how ugly I felt was not fair to him…. It sparked a “fight”(or as much of a fight as A. in a can get in).
When we made up, I looked at him, and in a sweet voice, said “…Can we have make up sex tonight..?” I had showed him my stomach, and my bare breasts, and he couldn’t help but touch himself! He got super turned on, and said he had felt the strongest rush he had ever felt. In his words, I was “the sexiest I have ever been.” My best girl friend even said “hot damn, beautiful!” to a picture of me that I had him show her of my stomach(let it be known that my best friend is GORGEOUS!!! She is the bestest best girl friend, EVER!!!). So I told him to take a picture on his phone of me standing there, holding my shirt up for him, he can see EVERYTHING. Now, my reason for this will come up in a little bit.
Oh. My. Word. I will never be able to effectively describe to you how incredibly sexy, and beautiful, and perfect our make up “sex” was. His moans were sooooo sexy! My body was writhing with pleasure(and I could tell his was too!). I told him to pull up the topless picture, and as soon as he got it up he let out this omgggg it was the sexiest thing I have ever heard. He honestly loved the way my body looked! It gave him pleasure!!!! I knew in that moment that, yeah, my body is sexy to him! It comes off as sexy!!! I’m sexy??????? I am sexy! Wow.
Make up sex is the hottest. Thing. EVER. Especially when you haven’t had that kind of interaction with your significant other for various reasons(mine being I was sick). It bonds you… Brings you closer together as a couple! Yes, I know it wasn’t real sex complete with the ohhhhh so amazing, and desirable penetration, but it was still the incredible phone sex(just to brag…. I have the hottest boyfriend ever!!!!!!!!!) that A. and I love, and really need as a long distance, touchy feely couple.
Last night, I was so sweaty, and hot, and wet from all of A.’s moans. If any girl besides me is lucky enough to even over hear him moan, they would understand why! And his growls… OH. MY. WORD. There is no way to tell you how hot it made me feel when he growled “I love you.” It was seriously one of the sexiest things I had ever heard! Girls, BEG your guy to do this for you. It doesn’t sound remotely enjoyable to some girls. TRUST ME. It is incredible, and intoxicating, and ohhhhhh myyy. Do it. Now.
Guys…. DO IT. Listen to your girlfriend. When she says she wants to try something, try it no matter how ridiculous it may sound, and no matter how much you think you might embarrass yourself. DO. IT. If you don’t like it, you don’t have to do it again! Just try things once.
The thing about make up sex…. Make up sex is getting rid of that anger…. That frustration… That’s why it has the tendency of being so much more aggressive then regular sex, skype sex, or phone sex. It’s all hormones! Of course, there’s tons of love involved with it(if you are a couple in love. Either way, there are feelings involved), and it becomes a very erotic experience for both parties! I would love if A. and I could have make up sex, without the fight before hand, but the only way to achieve that is to go without intimate time for a long period, which make us both cranky(like, imagine standing in front of your sig other, naked, and he has a hard on, and you’re dripping wet, but you CANNOT touch him/her. That’s what it’s like being us. All. The. Time).
My main point is that make up sex is hot. After a fight with your significant other, go and make love all night, as sweetly or aggressively as you want. You might still feel angry after a fight, and that’s hormones at work. Not the kind of hormones I talk about on here, the kind that make you angry. Get rid of them! Put on sexy, black 6 inch high heels, and nothing along with that, and totally go at it! You will feel all better by the end of it, and there is absolutely no way that you two would even be able to comprehend the idea of what on earth that fight was about afterwards! Of course, you need to work out fights, and do that before you have make up sex, or else you might start the fight back up again(and as amazing as make up sex is, it’s not worth having I fight with the one you love!).
Now go!!! Make up!!!!!
-S.
The Skin-Deep Side of Sex and P-90X- A.
Hey everyone! S. and I are both feeling better and will start to turn out the daily posts once again (sometimes more! Check in to see!). We had a nice little vacation. Well, she was sick and I was too busy to sit down and devote my attention to this blog. So not really nice. But still a break.
Today I'm channelling my inner Jersey Shore self and talking about something quite shallow: physical appearances. Yes, even S. and I, with our mushy selves and loving relationship and unconditional caring love, can be affected by this. I'm going to write on my physical appearance's change, then hers. But first, why I'm talking about this:
IT MAKES SEX AMAZING.
We have now discovered that this is one of those things that will WITHOUT FAIL spice up our love life, and probably would spice up most people's (of course, there's exceptions). We've tried new fantasies, new positions, new everything, and it's all worked brilliantly. But not as incredibly shockingly well as this!!!
For those of you who are trying to improve your sex life, I have a suggestion: either join the rec center's gym, a dance class, or some type of exercise deal that will push you. You might have to look around, or try some different things like biking to work or such. I personally hold a membership to my rec center's gym and do the P-90X workout program, and keep a supply of protein bars and/or shakes around the house. This works brilliantly, and even for girls protein will give you more lean muscle and less fat percentage. And protein plus ab workouts equals a six pack in less time, which anyone will agree is sexy.
To spice up your love life: get a little more in shape. You don't have to go all Mr./Mrs. Olympia. Just a few pounds, a little more muscle, a little leaner, and all of a sudden your confidence is boosted, your partner is drooling over you, and your libido will be slightly boosted (go onto a biology website if you want to research this more. I'm not gonna sit here and type out how it all works. Just know that losing stomach fat and building muscle boosts your natural libido). IT WORKS.
Now I'm going to talk about my physical changes. It's been a slower and more subtle change over the past three years. Three years ago I joined my gym because I had just asked S. out and wanted to look good for her. So slowly I've gone from a relatively chunky guy to a really skinny guy to a guy with some real muscles. This has all happened slowly, and I've really only been building up my muscles in the past eight months. Before that it was all cardio to lower my body fat percentage.
Now I noticed something after I started to build up muscle. All of a sudden S. was wanting me to flex for her and touch my body. She would mention specific body parts multiple times in a fantasy, like rubbing my biceps over and over and over. She touched me more and in more sensual ways all over my body. She started to grab my butt and get lust drunk over my pecs. She would literally drip if I flexed my arm for her over Skype. And It was AWESOME. I love it!!! I've been trying even more to build up the muscles she likes for her. And as I do it she gets more and more turned on just from looking at me. As my abs get more defined, she lusts over them more and more. As my pecs grow, she asks to see them more and more and more. As my arms get larger S. will literally moan at the thought, while before I built them up they would just make her go "yum!" in a little yeah-that's-kinda-a-turn-on way. Both are good, but now that I'm more in shape I could practically make her cum just by flexing and posing for her.
That's how my effort to improve my physical appearance has affected our love life. Now I'm going to talk about S.'s.
Hers was more by accident. She has been sick, which was terrible. She missed classes, she was nauseous, and had an enormous headache for days. It was awful. But one thing did come out of it. She lost around ten pounds!!! I know it's not the way she would have liked to, and I would have done anything to get her well. But I guess this was life's way of apologizing. She was sick, but she got a new body out of it.
AND OH MY GOD SHE LOOKS SO SEXY AND SENSUAL AND LEAN AND BEAUTIFUL AND IRRESISTIBLE.
I was SHOCKED when she showed me last night. Not just because of the drastic difference, but because my hormones went crazy. I felt a bigger rush than I ever have before IN MY LIFE. I was shaking from a few seconds of seeing her new body and from the tingling I felt all over. I've never been a stomach guy UNTIL LAST NIGHT. NOW I FREAKING AM because her stomach is flat and toned and sooooo sexy sexy sexyyyyyyyy!!!! We had phone sex afterwards, and we both were more turned on and ready to go than ever because of her new body!
I'm going to go daydream about her sexy lean little self now. More later! MMMMmmmmmm.... lean stomach.... soft boobs.... firm butt......
-A.
Today I'm channelling my inner Jersey Shore self and talking about something quite shallow: physical appearances. Yes, even S. and I, with our mushy selves and loving relationship and unconditional caring love, can be affected by this. I'm going to write on my physical appearance's change, then hers. But first, why I'm talking about this:
IT MAKES SEX AMAZING.
We have now discovered that this is one of those things that will WITHOUT FAIL spice up our love life, and probably would spice up most people's (of course, there's exceptions). We've tried new fantasies, new positions, new everything, and it's all worked brilliantly. But not as incredibly shockingly well as this!!!
For those of you who are trying to improve your sex life, I have a suggestion: either join the rec center's gym, a dance class, or some type of exercise deal that will push you. You might have to look around, or try some different things like biking to work or such. I personally hold a membership to my rec center's gym and do the P-90X workout program, and keep a supply of protein bars and/or shakes around the house. This works brilliantly, and even for girls protein will give you more lean muscle and less fat percentage. And protein plus ab workouts equals a six pack in less time, which anyone will agree is sexy.
To spice up your love life: get a little more in shape. You don't have to go all Mr./Mrs. Olympia. Just a few pounds, a little more muscle, a little leaner, and all of a sudden your confidence is boosted, your partner is drooling over you, and your libido will be slightly boosted (go onto a biology website if you want to research this more. I'm not gonna sit here and type out how it all works. Just know that losing stomach fat and building muscle boosts your natural libido). IT WORKS.
Now I'm going to talk about my physical changes. It's been a slower and more subtle change over the past three years. Three years ago I joined my gym because I had just asked S. out and wanted to look good for her. So slowly I've gone from a relatively chunky guy to a really skinny guy to a guy with some real muscles. This has all happened slowly, and I've really only been building up my muscles in the past eight months. Before that it was all cardio to lower my body fat percentage.
Now I noticed something after I started to build up muscle. All of a sudden S. was wanting me to flex for her and touch my body. She would mention specific body parts multiple times in a fantasy, like rubbing my biceps over and over and over. She touched me more and in more sensual ways all over my body. She started to grab my butt and get lust drunk over my pecs. She would literally drip if I flexed my arm for her over Skype. And It was AWESOME. I love it!!! I've been trying even more to build up the muscles she likes for her. And as I do it she gets more and more turned on just from looking at me. As my abs get more defined, she lusts over them more and more. As my pecs grow, she asks to see them more and more and more. As my arms get larger S. will literally moan at the thought, while before I built them up they would just make her go "yum!" in a little yeah-that's-kinda-a-turn-on way. Both are good, but now that I'm more in shape I could practically make her cum just by flexing and posing for her.
That's how my effort to improve my physical appearance has affected our love life. Now I'm going to talk about S.'s.
Hers was more by accident. She has been sick, which was terrible. She missed classes, she was nauseous, and had an enormous headache for days. It was awful. But one thing did come out of it. She lost around ten pounds!!! I know it's not the way she would have liked to, and I would have done anything to get her well. But I guess this was life's way of apologizing. She was sick, but she got a new body out of it.
AND OH MY GOD SHE LOOKS SO SEXY AND SENSUAL AND LEAN AND BEAUTIFUL AND IRRESISTIBLE.
I was SHOCKED when she showed me last night. Not just because of the drastic difference, but because my hormones went crazy. I felt a bigger rush than I ever have before IN MY LIFE. I was shaking from a few seconds of seeing her new body and from the tingling I felt all over. I've never been a stomach guy UNTIL LAST NIGHT. NOW I FREAKING AM because her stomach is flat and toned and sooooo sexy sexy sexyyyyyyyy!!!! We had phone sex afterwards, and we both were more turned on and ready to go than ever because of her new body!
I'm going to go daydream about her sexy lean little self now. More later! MMMMmmmmmm.... lean stomach.... soft boobs.... firm butt......
-A.
Monday, December 6, 2010
Sick Girlfriends and Threesomes - A.
So S. and I have both been sick lately, which is why all seven of you who are our readers have been disappointed with our lack of new posts. I'm feeling much better than S. is though. Even looking at a computer screen makes her nauseous. So for a while you all have to deal with just my ramblings. MUAHAHAHA!!!!
Today I wanted to talk about me and S.'s threesome rules. With her being bisexual, the topic has come up. And we have had many many MANY fantasies about it. So naturally we have had to come up with some rules over time just in case the stars all align and it just... happens.
General Rules: NO INTERCOURSE WITH THIRD PARTY. The closest thing she's mentioned is getting help giving me a blowjob. We have just agreed that we can have full sex, but the third person will be left out. I like to think of it as a PG-13 threesome.
Only girls as the new partner. No other male parties. S. and I both are just not comfortable with another guy. But we're both intrigued about having another girl in the bedroom, but again for PG-13 type stuff.
I can't kiss the girl. It's a little thing that S. has mentioned many times. And if we really did have a girl there S. might want me to kiss her, but it would be a spur of the moment thing and only if she requested it. At this point it's off limits. But she has told me she'd have a ton of fun fondling another girl's boobs with me =D And I can't blame her. Boobs are fun!!! So us fondling and feeling together seems to be what she's most comfortable with.
S. is allowed to do anything with the girl. She has free reign to do whatever she wants. So she gets to decide her own boundaries. Most likely My only conditions are that either I am there, or she takes pictures and lets me know everything that happens if I'm not. I would prefer to be there, even if it is just to watch the super hot action. Really me being there or pictures isn't for accountability or because I don't trust her. It's so I can watch me some hot girl-on-girl. Bite me.
We both get a say in what girl. We are extremely picky about what we like in a girl. Now, I've always wanted to bring home some bombshell girl as a surprise for her to play with, but even then she'd have the final word.
Now those are our basic rules for physically interactive threesomes. And really, if we did anything, it would be a threesome of heavy petting, fondling, and S. and the girl having fun. And me jerking off of course, but that goes without saying.
Another threesome-type of activity we are ABSOLUTELY open to is being watched by a girl or watching another girl do stuff. We find both activities EXTREMELY hot. One of our favorite fantasies we've ever done was one where we were walking past a window, saw our attractive single lady neighbor in her, waved, and just started goofing off and it evolving into us doing super hot stuff for her and our neighbor masturbating and us having a little across-the-street sex show. Things like that we are totally open to doing whenever without any kind of previous discussion. It's like a mini-threesome for us. If the girl wanted to interact with us that would be where we'd have to brief her on our rules and decide if we want to. But the watching and being watched is a fun little entry into that world. We've already experimented with it with HOT results! But that's a story for another time.
-A.
Today I wanted to talk about me and S.'s threesome rules. With her being bisexual, the topic has come up. And we have had many many MANY fantasies about it. So naturally we have had to come up with some rules over time just in case the stars all align and it just... happens.
General Rules: NO INTERCOURSE WITH THIRD PARTY. The closest thing she's mentioned is getting help giving me a blowjob. We have just agreed that we can have full sex, but the third person will be left out. I like to think of it as a PG-13 threesome.
Only girls as the new partner. No other male parties. S. and I both are just not comfortable with another guy. But we're both intrigued about having another girl in the bedroom, but again for PG-13 type stuff.
I can't kiss the girl. It's a little thing that S. has mentioned many times. And if we really did have a girl there S. might want me to kiss her, but it would be a spur of the moment thing and only if she requested it. At this point it's off limits. But she has told me she'd have a ton of fun fondling another girl's boobs with me =D And I can't blame her. Boobs are fun!!! So us fondling and feeling together seems to be what she's most comfortable with.
S. is allowed to do anything with the girl. She has free reign to do whatever she wants. So she gets to decide her own boundaries. Most likely My only conditions are that either I am there, or she takes pictures and lets me know everything that happens if I'm not. I would prefer to be there, even if it is just to watch the super hot action. Really me being there or pictures isn't for accountability or because I don't trust her. It's so I can watch me some hot girl-on-girl. Bite me.
We both get a say in what girl. We are extremely picky about what we like in a girl. Now, I've always wanted to bring home some bombshell girl as a surprise for her to play with, but even then she'd have the final word.
Now those are our basic rules for physically interactive threesomes. And really, if we did anything, it would be a threesome of heavy petting, fondling, and S. and the girl having fun. And me jerking off of course, but that goes without saying.
Another threesome-type of activity we are ABSOLUTELY open to is being watched by a girl or watching another girl do stuff. We find both activities EXTREMELY hot. One of our favorite fantasies we've ever done was one where we were walking past a window, saw our attractive single lady neighbor in her, waved, and just started goofing off and it evolving into us doing super hot stuff for her and our neighbor masturbating and us having a little across-the-street sex show. Things like that we are totally open to doing whenever without any kind of previous discussion. It's like a mini-threesome for us. If the girl wanted to interact with us that would be where we'd have to brief her on our rules and decide if we want to. But the watching and being watched is a fun little entry into that world. We've already experimented with it with HOT results! But that's a story for another time.
-A.
Friday, December 3, 2010
Curves - A.
So S. recently said she does not have many curves.
Bullocks.
I corrected her on this. She does have curves. like, many. So now I'm going to list them going from head to toe.
Her jawline has these really nice curves beneath her ears. They're very pronounced without making her square-jawed, which is a nice combination.
Her neck at the base has two pronounced tendons that carve out some nice curves into her chest.
Her shoulders are really very nice! She always wondered why I would love it when she'd go bare-shouldered, or slip off one shoulder of a shirt. She has rather toned shoulders with some little muscles in there. So her neck leads into this cascade down to her arms with perfect curves. And when her arms are above her head you can see them really well which is really cool =)
Her breasts are her most prominent curves. She has perfect boobs! They're large and round and lifted. I'm not talking about fake-boob silicone round. They're still a natural type of round, and don't point at the nipples at all. But they are fake-boob silicone lifted, which makes them into perfect U shaped curves on her body. From the side they are a beautifully alluring teardrops. By far my favorite curves on her.
Her hips are beautiful curves too. Since S. is a bit shorter, she doesn't have the Betty Boop exaggerated hourglass figure, but she still has one. Her hip curves are probably the smallest on her body but they're still there, and they're a lot of fun to stare at while she swings them ;)
She. has. such. a. tight. little. cute. butt!!!! It's two taught, firm, squishy curves!!! She has a pretty big butt for her size (Think mini/fun-sized Kim Kardashian type of figure). I loooooove her butt and how round it is!!! It's a lot of fun to play with! If any of you guys get the chance (Which you probably wont. hahaha.) you should try playing with it. And in the meantime I'll just hafta be the one who massages it.
And her legs are long, lean curves. Quite graceful. Her calves are smooth and supple and her thighs are OH MY LORD firm and round and so smooth without any bumps or spots that stick out more than others. Just one piece of unbroken, enticing, delicious skin.
Yes, this whole post was to prove one small point to S. Yes I am that stubborn.
-A.
Bullocks.
I corrected her on this. She does have curves. like, many. So now I'm going to list them going from head to toe.
Her jawline has these really nice curves beneath her ears. They're very pronounced without making her square-jawed, which is a nice combination.
Her neck at the base has two pronounced tendons that carve out some nice curves into her chest.
Her shoulders are really very nice! She always wondered why I would love it when she'd go bare-shouldered, or slip off one shoulder of a shirt. She has rather toned shoulders with some little muscles in there. So her neck leads into this cascade down to her arms with perfect curves. And when her arms are above her head you can see them really well which is really cool =)
Her breasts are her most prominent curves. She has perfect boobs! They're large and round and lifted. I'm not talking about fake-boob silicone round. They're still a natural type of round, and don't point at the nipples at all. But they are fake-boob silicone lifted, which makes them into perfect U shaped curves on her body. From the side they are a beautifully alluring teardrops. By far my favorite curves on her.
Her hips are beautiful curves too. Since S. is a bit shorter, she doesn't have the Betty Boop exaggerated hourglass figure, but she still has one. Her hip curves are probably the smallest on her body but they're still there, and they're a lot of fun to stare at while she swings them ;)
She. has. such. a. tight. little. cute. butt!!!! It's two taught, firm, squishy curves!!! She has a pretty big butt for her size (Think mini/fun-sized Kim Kardashian type of figure). I loooooove her butt and how round it is!!! It's a lot of fun to play with! If any of you guys get the chance (Which you probably wont. hahaha.) you should try playing with it. And in the meantime I'll just hafta be the one who massages it.
And her legs are long, lean curves. Quite graceful. Her calves are smooth and supple and her thighs are OH MY LORD firm and round and so smooth without any bumps or spots that stick out more than others. Just one piece of unbroken, enticing, delicious skin.
Yes, this whole post was to prove one small point to S. Yes I am that stubborn.
-A.
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