Make up Sex- S.

Last night, A. and I got in our first REAL fight.... Let me start from the beginning, and explain...

I lost an astounding eleven pounds from being sick! I threw up so much, and i couldn't eat anything. So I'm thinner than i used to be, and I'm already really thin. I kept saying to A. how gross it was, and generally very mean things about myself, that he didn't agree with... Being the amazing, loving boyfriend he is, he called me beautiful, and sexy, and all of those kind of compliments. So, on Skype last night, i had said "do you want to see my nasty stomach?" and it really upset him... It was unfair of me to hold myself to a different standard, you see? I never let him tell me that he looks bad…. He’s absolutely perfect!!!!!!! So my going on and on about how ugly I felt was not fair to him…. It sparked a “fight”(or as much of a fight as A. in a can get in).

When we made up, I looked at him, and in a sweet voice, said “…Can we have make up sex tonight..?” I had showed him my stomach, and my bare breasts, and he couldn’t help but touch himself! He got super turned on, and said he had felt the strongest rush he had ever felt. In his words, I was “the sexiest I have ever been.” My best girl friend even said “hot damn, beautiful!” to a picture of me that I had him show her of my stomach(let it be known that my best friend is GORGEOUS!!! She is the bestest best girl friend, EVER!!!). So I told him to take a picture on his phone of me standing there, holding my shirt up for him, he can see EVERYTHING. Now, my reason for this will come up in a little bit.

Oh. My. Word. I will never be able to effectively describe to you how incredibly sexy, and beautiful, and perfect our make up “sex” was. His moans were sooooo sexy! My body was writhing with pleasure(and I could tell his was too!). I told him to pull up the topless picture, and as soon as he got it up he let out this omgggg it was the sexiest thing I have ever heard. He honestly loved the way my body looked! It gave him pleasure!!!! I knew in that moment that, yeah, my body is sexy to him! It comes off as sexy!!! I’m sexy??????? I am sexy! Wow.

Make up sex is the hottest. Thing. EVER. Especially when you haven’t had that kind of interaction with your significant other for various reasons(mine being I was sick). It bonds you… Brings you closer together as a couple! Yes, I know it wasn’t real sex complete with the ohhhhh so amazing, and desirable penetration, but it was still the incredible phone sex(just to brag…. I have the hottest boyfriend ever!!!!!!!!!) that A. and I love, and really need as a long distance, touchy feely couple.

Last night, I was so sweaty, and hot, and wet from all of A.’s moans. If any girl besides me is lucky enough to even over hear him moan, they would understand why! And his growls… OH. MY. WORD. There is no way to tell you how hot it made me feel when he growled “I love you.” It was seriously one of the sexiest things I had ever heard! Girls, BEG your guy to do this for you. It doesn’t sound remotely enjoyable to some girls. TRUST ME. It is incredible, and intoxicating, and ohhhhhh myyy. Do it. Now.


Guys…. DO IT. Listen to your girlfriend. When she says she wants to try something, try it no matter how ridiculous it may sound, and no matter how much you think you might embarrass yourself. DO. IT. If you don’t like it, you don’t have to do it again! Just try things once.

The thing about make up sex…. Make up sex is getting rid of that anger…. That frustration… That’s why it has the tendency of being so much more aggressive then regular sex, skype sex, or phone sex. It’s all hormones! Of course, there’s tons of love involved with it(if you are a couple in love. Either way, there are feelings involved), and it becomes a very erotic experience for both parties! I would love if A. and I could have make up sex, without the fight before hand, but the only way to achieve that is to go without intimate time for a long period, which make us both cranky(like, imagine standing in front of your sig other, naked, and he has a hard on, and you’re dripping wet, but you CANNOT touch him/her. That’s what it’s like being us. All. The. Time).

My main point is that make up sex is hot. After a fight with your significant other, go and make love all night, as sweetly or aggressively as you want. You might still feel angry after a fight, and that’s hormones at work. Not the kind of hormones I talk about on here, the kind that make you angry. Get rid of them! Put on sexy, black 6 inch high heels, and nothing along with that, and totally go at it! You will feel all better by the end of it, and there is absolutely no way that you two would even be able to comprehend the idea of what on earth that fight was about afterwards! Of course, you need to work out fights, and do that before you have make up sex, or else you might start the fight back up again(and as amazing as make up sex is, it’s not worth having I fight with the one you love!).

Now go!!! Make up!!!!!

-S.