Prostate Stimulation for Dummies - A.

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Today, let's talk about the Male Prostate Gland.

I first heard about the prostate gland on The Sex is Fun Show. When we are in the womb, there is a gland that is formed in the pelvic area. In women it becomes the G-Spot, and in men it becomes the Prostate Gland. Both of these glands have functions that apply to sex and reproduction. In fact, these glands are just as responsible for orgasms as our nerves and minds, and produce most of the body fluids related to sex. This post will focus on the prostate, and in a later one we will address the infamous G-spot.

The prostate is located in the pelvic area, right above the taint, between the rectum and base of the penis. Its size and shape vary between people, and vary with levels of arousal. When someone with a prostate is aroused, the prostate will get much, much bigger.
The testes produce only sperm. Now, when you ejaculate, there's a lot more than just a few thousand tiny cells. The prostate produces the fluid that carries the sperm. In fact, most of ejaculate is prostate fluids, and a tiny amount of the actual volume is sperm. The fluid is not urine, or fluid from the testes.

The prostate is also a hidden gem. It is a big part of the physical sensation of orgasm, and due to that, stimulating the prostate leads to a new pleasure, much like stroking a cock in a different way. Stimulation will also lead to more powerful, longer, more pleasurable orgasms with increased sensitivity of the penis and a greater volume of ejaculate. In some cases, it can lead to multiple "full" orgasms. It can be compared to a woman having orgasms by clitoral stimulation alone, then adding in her G-spot to the equation. But above all, the prostate feels good to play with.

There is also talk that stimulating the prostate intentionally for pleasure could lead to a decrease in your risk for prostate issues later in life. Please, seek these studies and decide for yourself what you think of them.

My experience with prostate play was limited before listening to Sex is Fun. I had heard in passing Cosmopolitan Magazine talking about ways to stimulate the prostate, but this was mainly through massaging the Perineum. I read into it, and mainly saw tips like "Men, ball up a pair of socks, and sit with it below your taint. Then, rock back and forth while you masturbate" or "Ladies, massage his taint firmly during intercourse to really make the sparks fly".

I tried a few, but found that stimulation through the taint was not my cup of tea. For one thing, my perineum seems to be very hard, and seems even harder when I am aroused. This made those massages feel bad and uncomfortable, like sitting on a tennis ball. I also seem to have a taint that is not very flat, so that could possibly impact how much pressure is comfortable for me. For some people, this will be just the ticket. For people like me, you might need a more... direct route.

This may make some guys uncomfortable, because this approach involves anal penetration of a sort. Please, let me enlighten you: Putting anything up your butt is not "Gay" or "Homo" unless that object is a penis attached to another biological male. If it is indeed said penis, then yeah, that activity is a little gay.

*SAFETY RANT*
When doing anal penetration of any kind, follow some basic safety. Use a plain lube, preferably silicone. Make sure it contains no additives for tastes, sensations, spermicides, ect. Plain. Here is an example of an anal-safe lube. Also, if you put anything up your ass that is not attached to your body or your partner's body, make sure it has a flared base or a base that is wider than your anus. Make sure the base is too wide for the object to slip inside of you and lead to an emergency room trip.

I prefer anal penetration for prostate stim. It's much more targeted, strong, and leaves me with a much better result. The first time I tried it was after researching it using the Sex is Fun Podcast and select portions of The Guide To Getting it On. I got some lube, and next time I was showering after the gym, I just kind of went for it.

It was awkward at first. Learning to relax the anal muscles is a key skill to enjoying any anal experience, and I was not good at it. I had to do some pushing, grunting, and re-lubing a few times. I didn't use nearly enough slippery, and wasn't familiar with the angles I needed to take.

Once I was in, I noticed that I already had an erection. As it turns out, I like stimulation of the anus. It has been my go-to move if I'm having trouble getting aroused. Hop into a hot shower, do a little rubbing and a tiny bit of penetration, and I'm good to go for round two.

My technique for finding my prostate was kind of trial and error. I really just used my fingertip and felt around. As soon as I felt a sensation that was kind of good, kind of uncomfortable, kind of intense, I went with it. I used circular motions, a "come hither" move, and generally just tried to massage it. I really couldn't get more than my fingertips to reach, so I was a little limited. But WOW, was it good. I was in this strange limbo of ecstasy and discomfort. My body wasn't used to this new feeling, and it was almost too much.

I kept this up for three or four minutes, then pulled out and washed off. I had a thick, veiny, huge boner that was standing up all on it's own. I felt a throbbing from my pelvis, and could feel my heart pound as my cock grew more and more. I measured and found that between not orgasming for two days and the prostate massage, I had grown a full half inch in length and tons in girth. Naturally, there was only one thing to do.

I laid down a towel, got on it, closed my eyes, and immediately moaned. My hand had found my lubed cock, and each stroke made me gasp and writhe. It had more than doubled the pleasure and sensitivity of my penis, and having a larger erection gave me more to do with it. I used both hands and tried all sorts of soft strokes, long ones, massaging, ect.

I was using a pretty go-to fantasy at the time, one that may have spawned an erotica: S. and I having shower sex while a lesbian couple went at it next to us, and maybe having fun with S. occasionally. Having just been in the shower, it was especially vivid. I rubbed faster, but not harder, massaging my cock's head, and went harder and harder until...

I exploded. I shot a good ten times, soaking my chest, stomach, and the towel with cum. It was almost clear, and sweeter to the taste. I kept cumming for a minute more, and finally came down.

I can't recommend prostate stimulation enough. Go out, and try something new tonight!

-A.