I am going to be doing my first wave of pulling posts down and beginning the editing process over the next three days, as S. will be leaving for a trip and I will be working a job that does not require my full attention. Expect some posts to disappear, and others to re-surface renewed.
Today, I wanted to start a new type of post: videos. I like to link good videos, but they always felt out of place in normal posts. I will often read blogs and NOT click the singular video link. I was reading a long post so I was in the mood to stay on that page, I was in the middle of reading and would rather not stop and come back to it, ect, ect.
We have been guilty of this in the past, so a new format is needed. Video-oriented posts will let the reader know exactly what they are getting into, letting them decide to read it when they are in the mood to open up some cool vids.
Today, I'm gonna spice it up even more by playing video roulette. The rules are simple:
You must blindly click on every link and watch them (or don't, you are your own person). Most are educational and informative. BUT... One is a gallery of an amateur sexy model, and one is a behind-the-scenes clip from the new movie "Magic Mike", centered around a male stripper. Others include how to actually examine your testicles for cancer (something most men are not taught) and free STD testing available in your area. Enjoy.
All these links are meant to benefit you in some way. Note that most are NSFW.
Link #1
Link #2
Link #3
Link #4
Link #5
Link #6
-A.
Thursday, June 28, 2012
Tuesday, June 26, 2012
Making Time - A.
I've been a busy man.
I have a lot of work that has come to me recently. This is great, as I've had many awesome late nights running sound for cool people and my coming paychecks will be large. This is also coinciding with the height of summer, and gas prices dropping. I couldn't be happier financially, and I've been running around enjoying freedom with my happy wallet. All this has happened without crimping our time together. I still see S. four or five days out of the week, same as always, and we get the same amount of time on average.
But we have been slacking on intimacy.
So once again, we are at a point where we must make a conscious effort to hold intimacy as a priority. We are both in agreement on this, which is the only reason this is working. If we were not in agreement about this, it would easily fail. We will avoid going out if it means some intimate time, we lounge shirtless to get the sexy mood flowing, we swim and stay close to one another, shower together if possible... Basically try and bring a sexual atmosphere into our lives more and more.
My main point is not the individual ways we are ushering in intimacy. I am not posting to try and tell you all that showering together is sexy, or that leaving little hot notes for one another is a great libido boost. If you are creative at all, you can figure these things out*.
My main point is that if you feel your spark waning, you need to sit down and lay out the fact that you need to consciously make intimacy an important part of your lives again. You may not want to, you may not feel like it, but sit down and say it.
With your words.
Out loud.
Say what you've been feeling without accusing, and remind your significant other that you are both on the same team. Use that term too. Actually say "We are on the same team". It's such a simple statement that reminds people in conflict that your partner is someone you chose out of your own free will, and is your friend. Work together.
Then, try and talk out some ways to attain what you want. Talk it out, write it down, set it as your alarm title on your phone so it'll remind you. Just talk to each other and stay calm, and soon your intimate life will blossom again.
The worst thing you could do is not say anything. Expecting the other person to pick up on the vibes you're feeling and change it will lead you to conflict, guaranteed. Trying to work it out on unspoken agreements and terms will leave it ambiguous and not get you results. And resenting one another while making no effort to change the situation will make you both miserable losers who could soon be single with some new baggage to lump onto your next partner. Take your pick.
Sometimes, plain old diplomacy is the sexiest choice. Sexy, sexy politics.
-A.
*For those who aren't feeling so creative, a post with ideas for sex, dates, and fun with others will be in the works soon.
I have a lot of work that has come to me recently. This is great, as I've had many awesome late nights running sound for cool people and my coming paychecks will be large. This is also coinciding with the height of summer, and gas prices dropping. I couldn't be happier financially, and I've been running around enjoying freedom with my happy wallet. All this has happened without crimping our time together. I still see S. four or five days out of the week, same as always, and we get the same amount of time on average.
But we have been slacking on intimacy.
So once again, we are at a point where we must make a conscious effort to hold intimacy as a priority. We are both in agreement on this, which is the only reason this is working. If we were not in agreement about this, it would easily fail. We will avoid going out if it means some intimate time, we lounge shirtless to get the sexy mood flowing, we swim and stay close to one another, shower together if possible... Basically try and bring a sexual atmosphere into our lives more and more.
My main point is not the individual ways we are ushering in intimacy. I am not posting to try and tell you all that showering together is sexy, or that leaving little hot notes for one another is a great libido boost. If you are creative at all, you can figure these things out*.
My main point is that if you feel your spark waning, you need to sit down and lay out the fact that you need to consciously make intimacy an important part of your lives again. You may not want to, you may not feel like it, but sit down and say it.
With your words.
Out loud.
Say what you've been feeling without accusing, and remind your significant other that you are both on the same team. Use that term too. Actually say "We are on the same team". It's such a simple statement that reminds people in conflict that your partner is someone you chose out of your own free will, and is your friend. Work together.
Then, try and talk out some ways to attain what you want. Talk it out, write it down, set it as your alarm title on your phone so it'll remind you. Just talk to each other and stay calm, and soon your intimate life will blossom again.
The worst thing you could do is not say anything. Expecting the other person to pick up on the vibes you're feeling and change it will lead you to conflict, guaranteed. Trying to work it out on unspoken agreements and terms will leave it ambiguous and not get you results. And resenting one another while making no effort to change the situation will make you both miserable losers who could soon be single with some new baggage to lump onto your next partner. Take your pick.
Sometimes, plain old diplomacy is the sexiest choice. Sexy, sexy politics.
-A.
*For those who aren't feeling so creative, a post with ideas for sex, dates, and fun with others will be in the works soon.
More Updates - A.
Hello all. We have a few new updates for you all on this blogs formatting.
Note: fret not, minions, there are plenty of regular posts in the works, and we are working on tagging more posts.
We now have a search function! This may be temporary, I do not like how inaccurate it is, but it will allow you to search for old posts while we sort out tags and archiving.
Our new page loads extremely fast on all devices, including devices on 3G networks and weak WiFi. I like having one consistent page layout for all devices, but on smartphones the background image was shoved over the text, making it difficult to read. So I have enabled a very simple mobile site that will load up on your mobile devices and allow you to read our posts with ease. I am going to work on bringing it more in line with our regular site, but it may be the best option for allowing you people to view our posts.
Other small changes include a higher quality backdrop, tweaks to colors and qualities to make the text easy to read, optimizing performance, and adding a dash of love.
More later,
-A.
Note: fret not, minions, there are plenty of regular posts in the works, and we are working on tagging more posts.
We now have a search function! This may be temporary, I do not like how inaccurate it is, but it will allow you to search for old posts while we sort out tags and archiving.
Our new page loads extremely fast on all devices, including devices on 3G networks and weak WiFi. I like having one consistent page layout for all devices, but on smartphones the background image was shoved over the text, making it difficult to read. So I have enabled a very simple mobile site that will load up on your mobile devices and allow you to read our posts with ease. I am going to work on bringing it more in line with our regular site, but it may be the best option for allowing you people to view our posts.
Other small changes include a higher quality backdrop, tweaks to colors and qualities to make the text easy to read, optimizing performance, and adding a dash of love.
More later,
-A.
Sunday, June 24, 2012
Today, I'm gonna talk about me and S.'s experience with some of the most effective and least sexy sex toys. In the same way that the largest sex organ we have as humans isn't our genitals, but our minds, the sex toys that get the most return aren't the ones on the shelf at SexWorld, Smitten Kitten, or Extreme Restraints. So without any more rambling, here's my top ten picks for the best unsexy sex toys! We've used a majority of these, but not all of them since we are long-distance.
#5 - A pen and paper
Those of you who actually have read back on our posts will know that S. gave me an incredibly hot scavenger hunt around her apartment by leaving clues on scraps of paper that led me to all her clothing hanging up on doors or on the floor, and ending with her wearing boyshorts and a silk robe and lying on a big bed. Okay, so maybe it was texts and not paper, but still! We've also drawn hot little drawings for each other, written sexy notes, and had a ton of fun with it! A pad of paper and a mechanical pencil or pen has a ton of possibilities. Have you ever thought about hiding sexy notes in your partner's lunch, clothing, bag, or on their computer? You'll drive them crazy by tantalizing them all day, and bonus points if you include some sexy drawings. That's why a pen and some paper gets the number five spot.
#4 - A list of chores/responsibilities
Do you have a partner who doesn't seem to have any time for intimacy? Do they seem distracted or anxious about getting things done after they're done with having pleasure with you? Then get off your butt and fix it! Do their chores, or do something that they usually take on. Take on some of their responsibilities for once, and try to shoulder some of their work. If you do it before they get home, you are so set for some action. Call that friend and schedule some stuff! Pick them up that stuff from the store they need! You'll find that not only do they have more time, but they will be more relaxed since they're not worrying about what they have to do after sex/intimacy.
#3 - Dress shirt
Every guy has some dress shirts. They're usually the same old button down shirt that everyone wears. Not too sexy, right? WRONG!!!!!
Men - ZZ Top had it right: Ladies go crazy for a sharp dressed man. I know plenty of people have different tastes in fashion, but a majority of men and women like a man who doesn't dress completely formally, but looks nice. Try getting up, shaving, showering, and dressing in something pretty nice, complete with a well-fitting dress shirt for your next date instead of just jeans and a t-shirt. Also, some partners like you to pull a Hasselhoff and unbotton it like halfway down. Try leaving the shirt on during intimacy and just unbottoning it. It'll feel new and exciting and makes a convinent wrist restraint or blindfold.
Women - WEAR HIS SHIRT. Do it with nothing else on. Do it with some cute lingerie or some shorts or even pajamas. Unbotton it. Leave it bottoned. Wear it out with friends. Wear it at home just for him. Put it on and go take a shower. Leave it on during sex. It's a total turn on, it's cute, and guys and girls just LOVE it! No matter what you do with it, without it, or in it, almost everyone loves a little girl in a men's button down.
#2 - A chaise
This little piece of furniture has offerend us so many positions it's almost unbelievable. Really, look up a picture of the avergage chaise and just picture all the things you can do. Liberator needs to make a sex chaise. For now, if you own one, go try it out. It's seriously versatile to the extreme.
#1 - Gym membership or workout program.
This is the number one sex toy. Why? No other sexy toy can promise all the following:
More energy
Make you more attractive to people, not the least of which your partner
An increase in testosterone, and indirectly libido
To make you feel sexier and more attractive
Help you live longer so you can have more sex
It also gives you the excuse to go and spend some time together moving, gets some good-feeling endorpins, and gives you an excuse to have some sweaty intimate time, as well as some shower fun.
I know even 30 minutes a day seems like too much time for some people, but it's good for you, necessary for good health, and will truly boost your sex life.
-A.
#5 - A pen and paper
Those of you who actually have read back on our posts will know that S. gave me an incredibly hot scavenger hunt around her apartment by leaving clues on scraps of paper that led me to all her clothing hanging up on doors or on the floor, and ending with her wearing boyshorts and a silk robe and lying on a big bed. Okay, so maybe it was texts and not paper, but still! We've also drawn hot little drawings for each other, written sexy notes, and had a ton of fun with it! A pad of paper and a mechanical pencil or pen has a ton of possibilities. Have you ever thought about hiding sexy notes in your partner's lunch, clothing, bag, or on their computer? You'll drive them crazy by tantalizing them all day, and bonus points if you include some sexy drawings. That's why a pen and some paper gets the number five spot.
#4 - A list of chores/responsibilities
Do you have a partner who doesn't seem to have any time for intimacy? Do they seem distracted or anxious about getting things done after they're done with having pleasure with you? Then get off your butt and fix it! Do their chores, or do something that they usually take on. Take on some of their responsibilities for once, and try to shoulder some of their work. If you do it before they get home, you are so set for some action. Call that friend and schedule some stuff! Pick them up that stuff from the store they need! You'll find that not only do they have more time, but they will be more relaxed since they're not worrying about what they have to do after sex/intimacy.
#3 - Dress shirt
Every guy has some dress shirts. They're usually the same old button down shirt that everyone wears. Not too sexy, right? WRONG!!!!!
Men - ZZ Top had it right: Ladies go crazy for a sharp dressed man. I know plenty of people have different tastes in fashion, but a majority of men and women like a man who doesn't dress completely formally, but looks nice. Try getting up, shaving, showering, and dressing in something pretty nice, complete with a well-fitting dress shirt for your next date instead of just jeans and a t-shirt. Also, some partners like you to pull a Hasselhoff and unbotton it like halfway down. Try leaving the shirt on during intimacy and just unbottoning it. It'll feel new and exciting and makes a convinent wrist restraint or blindfold.
Women - WEAR HIS SHIRT. Do it with nothing else on. Do it with some cute lingerie or some shorts or even pajamas. Unbotton it. Leave it bottoned. Wear it out with friends. Wear it at home just for him. Put it on and go take a shower. Leave it on during sex. It's a total turn on, it's cute, and guys and girls just LOVE it! No matter what you do with it, without it, or in it, almost everyone loves a little girl in a men's button down.
#2 - A chaise
This little piece of furniture has offerend us so many positions it's almost unbelievable. Really, look up a picture of the avergage chaise and just picture all the things you can do. Liberator needs to make a sex chaise. For now, if you own one, go try it out. It's seriously versatile to the extreme.
#1 - Gym membership or workout program.
This is the number one sex toy. Why? No other sexy toy can promise all the following:
More energy
Make you more attractive to people, not the least of which your partner
An increase in testosterone, and indirectly libido
To make you feel sexier and more attractive
Help you live longer so you can have more sex
It also gives you the excuse to go and spend some time together moving, gets some good-feeling endorpins, and gives you an excuse to have some sweaty intimate time, as well as some shower fun.
I know even 30 minutes a day seems like too much time for some people, but it's good for you, necessary for good health, and will truly boost your sex life.
-A.
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