This is a surprise post for S.! She's always wanting to know my current fantasies, so here you go my love!
I'll make some notes by some of them. They range from the simple to the extreme *wink*.
-Long blowjob late at night after a bath.
-Striptease with a lap dance ending.
-Some grinding in reverse cowgirl, then you leaning back so your back is on my chest and we grind some more like that.
-Anal in the shower... *shiver*
-Titty fucking, titty fucking, titty fucking... Titty fucking all day long with tons of lube...
-Being watched by a girl while we have fun. Still a huge one for me, but it's expanded a little. I'd want the person to be doing it for their pleasure OR just for fun OR to help us fulfill our fantasy.
-Doggy style with you moving your hips in alternating circles.
-Sucking, licking, and massaging your breasts for a long, long time.
-Me giving you instructions on how to please me, then laying back and having you carry them out.
-More dirty dancing with me in charge.
-You laying flat on the ground with your legs almost in the splits, your arms out in front, and me grinding and touching you however I want.
-Me watching you watch some hot striptease or lesbian scene online, then having some hot fun afterwords with you in the shower.
-Me cumming in you (mouth, vagina, ass... I'm not picky!)
-You sending me a surprise, super dirty quick fantasy. In fact, I may do this for you soon!
-Me playing with my prostate and you jacking and sucking me off.
-More videography with my favorite porn star... YOU! Maybe I'll join in the next scene...
-Double girl blowjob (a mental only fantasy, but still a niiiice one, and one you gave me in the first place. Muchas Gracias!).
That's just the start... You should give me a list!
I love you :)
-A.
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
Tuesday, March 6, 2012
All About Breasts - Visual - Personal Opinions - A.
Hey all!
Yesterday was a lot of facts, statistics, boring boring boring for some of you. So I decided today to continue my thoughts on yesterday's post, but more from my own opinions.
DISCLAIMER: I dearly hope to not offend any of you dear readers. If you feel bad because of what I say I like/ don't like, please know that not only am I just one male in this whole wide world, I'm engaged. That means that I do not know you and your wonderful personalities, your stunning looks, or whatever other assets your future partner or partners will find endearing, beautiful, or sexy about you, and I will never be that partner. I am also coming at this with a complete disregard for anything other than skin deep beauty, since that's the topic of this little series. Remember that it's the person you are, not the person you look like, that defines you.
To start off, I'm a boob guy. I do love the ass and abs and hips and neck and all the rest (except legs. Legs are nice but not as big of a turn on for me), but the boobs edge the rest out a little bit. If my attraction to the other parts of the female body is a 9/10, my attraction to the breasts is a 10/10. Me and S. play with her breasts, look at breasts, give them names, talk about them... I love it!
From a visual standpoint, I do prefer a C cup size and up, with some exceptions for notable B cupped pairs. For me, it's far more about shape than size. I like rounded or teardrop shaped ones with forward or upward turned nipples. There's also just undefinable criteria that I look for. I'll like one pair and not another of identical size and shape because of subtle differences.
I go for the bustier girls, sure. But I've found that size is less of an issue when it comes to touching them. I've had the pleasure of knowing S. for a long time, and during that time her breast size has fluctuated. It was a B cup when I first touched them, went up to a C cup along our relationship, spent some time flipping between a C and a D cup, and has now decided to settle for the moment on a solid D cup. This means that I've gotten to experience the same set of boobs in many sizes (Great fodder for fantasies, by the way. I can vividly remember the feel of each size and choose what I like that day). And my conclusion:
There's not much of a difference in how they feel.
At a B cup they were just as soft and perky as a C cup. And there was even less difference between the feel of a C cup and a D cup! At a C, I couldn't fit the breast all the way in one hand, so every size up after that was just increasing the degree to which I couldn't fit the breast in one hand. Visually it was stunning to see the difference, but in touch there was a more subtle change.
Now, I prefer her D cup rack, it gives me more to play with and makes titty fucking the best thing ever, and lets me give her more pleasure. I address the fact that they felt very similar to ease up any anxiety any of you may be feeling about your breasts or your partner's breasts. Know that visually and in physical intimacy, all breasts are similar in very important and erotic ways.
Later tonight or early tommorow I will be posting on breast augmentation, enhancement, and reconstruction. Look forward to seeing you there!
-A.
Yesterday was a lot of facts, statistics, boring boring boring for some of you. So I decided today to continue my thoughts on yesterday's post, but more from my own opinions.
DISCLAIMER: I dearly hope to not offend any of you dear readers. If you feel bad because of what I say I like/ don't like, please know that not only am I just one male in this whole wide world, I'm engaged. That means that I do not know you and your wonderful personalities, your stunning looks, or whatever other assets your future partner or partners will find endearing, beautiful, or sexy about you, and I will never be that partner. I am also coming at this with a complete disregard for anything other than skin deep beauty, since that's the topic of this little series. Remember that it's the person you are, not the person you look like, that defines you.
To start off, I'm a boob guy. I do love the ass and abs and hips and neck and all the rest (except legs. Legs are nice but not as big of a turn on for me), but the boobs edge the rest out a little bit. If my attraction to the other parts of the female body is a 9/10, my attraction to the breasts is a 10/10. Me and S. play with her breasts, look at breasts, give them names, talk about them... I love it!
From a visual standpoint, I do prefer a C cup size and up, with some exceptions for notable B cupped pairs. For me, it's far more about shape than size. I like rounded or teardrop shaped ones with forward or upward turned nipples. There's also just undefinable criteria that I look for. I'll like one pair and not another of identical size and shape because of subtle differences.
I go for the bustier girls, sure. But I've found that size is less of an issue when it comes to touching them. I've had the pleasure of knowing S. for a long time, and during that time her breast size has fluctuated. It was a B cup when I first touched them, went up to a C cup along our relationship, spent some time flipping between a C and a D cup, and has now decided to settle for the moment on a solid D cup. This means that I've gotten to experience the same set of boobs in many sizes (Great fodder for fantasies, by the way. I can vividly remember the feel of each size and choose what I like that day). And my conclusion:
There's not much of a difference in how they feel.
At a B cup they were just as soft and perky as a C cup. And there was even less difference between the feel of a C cup and a D cup! At a C, I couldn't fit the breast all the way in one hand, so every size up after that was just increasing the degree to which I couldn't fit the breast in one hand. Visually it was stunning to see the difference, but in touch there was a more subtle change.
Now, I prefer her D cup rack, it gives me more to play with and makes titty fucking the best thing ever, and lets me give her more pleasure. I address the fact that they felt very similar to ease up any anxiety any of you may be feeling about your breasts or your partner's breasts. Know that visually and in physical intimacy, all breasts are similar in very important and erotic ways.
Later tonight or early tommorow I will be posting on breast augmentation, enhancement, and reconstruction. Look forward to seeing you there!
-A.
Monday, March 5, 2012
All About Breasts Part 1 - Breast Size: Visual - A.
Hello everyone! After much delay, research, and a lack of coffee, here is the first part of our small series on secondary sexual characteristics. (Click the link for definition or a refresher course on what these are). Today we will be discussing breast sizes, and how men perceive them.
I am a male, giving a male perspective. I've done some research into why men like breasts (boobs, knockers, sweater puppies, tits, jugs, ect.) and what they like about them. I'm writing this with two tabs open, full of the info that I've gathered, and will be adding in my own insight to the current information about the average American/European male. I've also found a strong correlation between females and attraction to breasts, so I'm using their information as well.
First, let's address breast size from a visual standpoint. Breasts are a very obvious sexual characteristic, and are the more playful sexual body part for most. This produces a lot of pressure on women, as this is a sexual characteristic mostly out of their control (we will discuss breast enhancements, augmentations, and reconstructions later). The attraction to breasts seems to stem from many things. I'll list them out below to make it easy:
"Are my breasts too small visually?"
No! While males seemed to prefer a B sized cup and up, there were Google search results in the millions for pictures of females with A cups or smaller (I am talking about search reports on how many people search terms, not how many web-pages of small breasted women available). It's a small drop-off, but with millions of men searching for those small chests, you are certainly not going to be rejected. Women took an equal interest in A-cups on up, to an extent.
We also live in a society were there are many ideas of beautiful female bodies, and one of these is the skinny, angular, and flat-chested girl. This idea has made small breasts an asset to posses and be proud of. It's all about finding the people who like your body type and think you're the hottest thing to walk this earth!
"Are my breasts too big visually?"
No, but with some qualifiers. Men preferred a C sized cup and up more than the B sized cup and below overall, but with qualifications. There was more desire for natural breasts, and far FAR less for surgically enhanced breasts. But as far as the natural girls are concerned, there seems to be no such thing as too big. Males were shown photos and drawings of females with C-cups on up, and didn't even stop saying that they thought those breasts were attractive even when they got disproportionately large. They were even shown Anime drawings of girls who's breasts were larger than their entire body and the males still rated them sexy. With fake breasts there was a dramatic fall-off, but this is likely due to the "unnatural" appearance of extreme breast implants.
Females took an interest in both natural and surgically enhanced breasts, but there was a steady fall-off from sized G breasts and up. HOWEVER, those same women said that in real life, they would find those breasts equally desirable, just not in pictures. So take heart, busty ladies! You're damn sexy to all genders, no matter your size.
Breast shape is also a needless source of anxiety for those blessed to posses them. Most men and women preffered a few shapes. There was equal response for the "teardrop" shape, where (if the person was standing sideways) the top line of the breasts would be straight or even concave, and the bottom line was rounded and full, the "oval" shape, where the top and bottom lines are curved outwards, the "flatter" shape where the breasts hang lower and sit more flat to the body, and any variation of how far apart the breasts are.
Both men and women preffered upward-pointed nipples, but still liked downward facing ones. Nipple size, shape, and color made no difference whatsoever.
HOMEWORK:
Touch a new pair of breasts (If acceptable in your relationship). See how easy or hard it is to get permission, observe the feel and look, and take careful note of your body's reaction. Try to pay attention to the person you're touching. Do they like it, or are they indifferent? This exercise is especially helpful with females to not only bond with their friends, but to feel better about themselves as shown in a 2009 study.
Ta Ta for now!
-A.
I am a male, giving a male perspective. I've done some research into why men like breasts (boobs, knockers, sweater puppies, tits, jugs, ect.) and what they like about them. I'm writing this with two tabs open, full of the info that I've gathered, and will be adding in my own insight to the current information about the average American/European male. I've also found a strong correlation between females and attraction to breasts, so I'm using their information as well.
First, let's address breast size from a visual standpoint. Breasts are a very obvious sexual characteristic, and are the more playful sexual body part for most. This produces a lot of pressure on women, as this is a sexual characteristic mostly out of their control (we will discuss breast enhancements, augmentations, and reconstructions later). The attraction to breasts seems to stem from many things. I'll list them out below to make it easy:
- They are one of the first sources of comfort, bonding, and sustenance we encounter after we are born. Many people find this unnerving to think about, but it's not in a sexual way at all. You were a baby, and all you knew was sleeping and feeding yourself, and breasts were one of the first body parts you were taught to recognize as "good". Seems to be true across most genders.
- They are a "Forbidden Fruit", a body part not suitable for public display according to society. Just making them something off limits makes it enticing, seductive. Nowadays it's less about the breasts, and more about the nipples, which makes it even more enticing. Now we can see this previously private body part, the cleavage, the skin, imagine how it feels, AND there's a hyper-erotic, hyper-sexualized, and VERY off limits part of that breast that we want to see even more badly! It's the off-limits body part on the off-limits body part.
- Women are taught to look forward to their breasts developing during puberty, much like a boy is taught to look forward to muscles and a larger penis. This makes it a common part of every female's development, and often something exciting and new, and these feelings can carry over to adulthood. There's also a study showing that if one female see's a peer develop breasts before her, she instinctual gets a bit of jealousy and desire for those breasts to be hers, most likely brought on by genetic drives to be a desirable partner for the purposes of procreation. That same study showed that young women with earlier breast development were more likely to sexualize their breasts as something others desired.
- Men first encounter these growing, budding breasts when they are young, hormone-ridden, and still developing in their minds. Breasts are very obvious, and hard to hide, and were probably some of the first impressions of female sexuality young men encountered in daily life (not counting internet, television, books, magazines, ect.)
- They are seen as a pre-cursor to intercourse; i.e. "First Base" is making out, "Second base" is touching the breasts and sometimes the butt, "Third Base" is usually some escalation of the previous actions like oral sex or dry humping, and "Home" or a "Home Run" is full intercourse. Men and women are taught that before sex, the bra comes off, making it a part of one's sexual experience. There seems to be little influence from size or shape on people's desires to make it to "Second Base", showing that it's breasts in general and not a certain set of attributes that make them desirable.
- They are fun! They're a fun, feminine, soft, warm, cute, sexy body part. All those attributes are good things, and make them something that men and women want to feel, even in non-sexual ways. There's not much about breasts to make them unappealing, unless you are genuinely not attracted to them. And most people are up for a grab or feel! I'll discuss that fact later... *wink*
"Are my breasts too small visually?"
No! While males seemed to prefer a B sized cup and up, there were Google search results in the millions for pictures of females with A cups or smaller (I am talking about search reports on how many people search terms, not how many web-pages of small breasted women available). It's a small drop-off, but with millions of men searching for those small chests, you are certainly not going to be rejected. Women took an equal interest in A-cups on up, to an extent.
We also live in a society were there are many ideas of beautiful female bodies, and one of these is the skinny, angular, and flat-chested girl. This idea has made small breasts an asset to posses and be proud of. It's all about finding the people who like your body type and think you're the hottest thing to walk this earth!
"Are my breasts too big visually?"
No, but with some qualifiers. Men preferred a C sized cup and up more than the B sized cup and below overall, but with qualifications. There was more desire for natural breasts, and far FAR less for surgically enhanced breasts. But as far as the natural girls are concerned, there seems to be no such thing as too big. Males were shown photos and drawings of females with C-cups on up, and didn't even stop saying that they thought those breasts were attractive even when they got disproportionately large. They were even shown Anime drawings of girls who's breasts were larger than their entire body and the males still rated them sexy. With fake breasts there was a dramatic fall-off, but this is likely due to the "unnatural" appearance of extreme breast implants.
Females took an interest in both natural and surgically enhanced breasts, but there was a steady fall-off from sized G breasts and up. HOWEVER, those same women said that in real life, they would find those breasts equally desirable, just not in pictures. So take heart, busty ladies! You're damn sexy to all genders, no matter your size.
Breast shape is also a needless source of anxiety for those blessed to posses them. Most men and women preffered a few shapes. There was equal response for the "teardrop" shape, where (if the person was standing sideways) the top line of the breasts would be straight or even concave, and the bottom line was rounded and full, the "oval" shape, where the top and bottom lines are curved outwards, the "flatter" shape where the breasts hang lower and sit more flat to the body, and any variation of how far apart the breasts are.
Both men and women preffered upward-pointed nipples, but still liked downward facing ones. Nipple size, shape, and color made no difference whatsoever.
HOMEWORK:
Touch a new pair of breasts (If acceptable in your relationship). See how easy or hard it is to get permission, observe the feel and look, and take careful note of your body's reaction. Try to pay attention to the person you're touching. Do they like it, or are they indifferent? This exercise is especially helpful with females to not only bond with their friends, but to feel better about themselves as shown in a 2009 study.
Ta Ta for now!
-A.
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