So here's my review for the Wet Premium Platinum Lubricant.
Don't get it. I'm a silicone lube user, and I've sampled a lot. I'll break this down into a Pros and Cons list, since it is a decent product, it simply didn't measure up to my standards.
Pros:
It's available in Target, Walmart, and a lot of Pharmacies. I really like products that are easy to acquire. We all have that moment where we forget something on vacation, and in those moments a product available at a Target or Walmart for cheap and fast. It's pure silicone as far as I know, so it's sanitary and safe for most activities. Good price compared to other lubes.
Cons:
It lacks ALL the usual advantages of silicone lubrication. It comes off almost instantly with water, which is exactly what silicone brags that it won't do. It also has the evil clumping problem. After a while, it forms clumps of something, which is normally a water-based lube issue. It also lasts for a short amount of time. It's not a quality product at all.
All in all, this would probably be alright for people on a budget or for giving massages. But I can't reccomend it for any kind of sexual play. For that, get a lubricant that sticks around for longer, or you will run the risk of tearing and/or chafing.
Friday, May 13, 2011
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
News and Letters - A.
So first, some news! You might have missed us. Well, we've been a little busy. S. will finally be in town! It's been months and months, so we've been planning for that. She may also be staying for an extended period later on this summer, which is AMAZING!!!!
We are also planning a summer trip to a place. With sun. And beaches. And friends. We may share where later on, right now we're keeping it private. But we will be sharing details later on this week, including an interesting situation with the other couple we're going with.
Now, I've been witnessing some general idiocy among people, so this is a letter for you all. This is mainly addressed to monogamous MF couples, but can be read for all variations thereof.
Dear girls,
Learn to take a compliment. If your friend or significant other gives you a compliment, chances are they mean it. Now, if you continually reject compliments while wanting them more and more, YOU will make them start to give empty compliments. Learn to take it an say thank you and smile. Also, give guys compliments. Find an attractive quality and compliment them. In fact, next time you all are out, try to give him as many compliments as he gives you. We want those little kudos just as much as you do, we just don't admit it.
Freaking experiment. Try a new routine, a new food, a new position, a new restaurant, a new anything! We like to feel adventurous, and we want you to be a pat of those adventures. Don't shoot them down because you're nervous, or it's not something girls normally do. I've watched a girl do 150 push ups for a contest, and she wasn't buff at all. Girls can do anything a guy can do and vice versa. Don't let stereotypes hold you down.
Wear some modest clothing every once in a while. You don't have to use your body to get people to treat you well. You can also use your intelligence, humor, wit, and wisdom. It'll get you further. And it'll make your significant other feel a little better.
Everyone likes a girl who can be independent. But the ones who try to be super independent often suffer and become self-sacrificers. Take help. Do it today. Your happiness is worth asking for help. And people enjoy helping the ones they care about.
Dear guys,
Buy her things for normal dates, and do special handmade items or special outing-type things, or just generally things you don't buy for holidays. That little switch will not only save you money (since you'll be buying smaller things for your dates than for holidays), it will make both dates and holidays more special. This doesn't have to be a permanent change. Just try switching it up for a little while. A little change can make things special.
Let her be dominant every now and then, whether that's in the bedroom or out. Pick one area of your life where you totally take charge: sex, driving, paying the bill, planning outings with friends, cooking, ect., and let her do it every now and then. Being dominant and submissive switches can make you both better, more understanding lovers in whatever area you choose to switch.
Lube. Use it. Every time.
If you have feelings for other men, and you are beginning to identify as bisexual, tell your partner. It may be awkward, but there is such a thing as being monogamous and bisexual. There's also such a thing as setting boundaries that allow you to explore it a little and satisfy your cravings without going all the way.
Thank you!
-A.
We are also planning a summer trip to a place. With sun. And beaches. And friends. We may share where later on, right now we're keeping it private. But we will be sharing details later on this week, including an interesting situation with the other couple we're going with.
Now, I've been witnessing some general idiocy among people, so this is a letter for you all. This is mainly addressed to monogamous MF couples, but can be read for all variations thereof.
Dear girls,
Learn to take a compliment. If your friend or significant other gives you a compliment, chances are they mean it. Now, if you continually reject compliments while wanting them more and more, YOU will make them start to give empty compliments. Learn to take it an say thank you and smile. Also, give guys compliments. Find an attractive quality and compliment them. In fact, next time you all are out, try to give him as many compliments as he gives you. We want those little kudos just as much as you do, we just don't admit it.
Freaking experiment. Try a new routine, a new food, a new position, a new restaurant, a new anything! We like to feel adventurous, and we want you to be a pat of those adventures. Don't shoot them down because you're nervous, or it's not something girls normally do. I've watched a girl do 150 push ups for a contest, and she wasn't buff at all. Girls can do anything a guy can do and vice versa. Don't let stereotypes hold you down.
Wear some modest clothing every once in a while. You don't have to use your body to get people to treat you well. You can also use your intelligence, humor, wit, and wisdom. It'll get you further. And it'll make your significant other feel a little better.
Everyone likes a girl who can be independent. But the ones who try to be super independent often suffer and become self-sacrificers. Take help. Do it today. Your happiness is worth asking for help. And people enjoy helping the ones they care about.
Dear guys,
Buy her things for normal dates, and do special handmade items or special outing-type things, or just generally things you don't buy for holidays. That little switch will not only save you money (since you'll be buying smaller things for your dates than for holidays), it will make both dates and holidays more special. This doesn't have to be a permanent change. Just try switching it up for a little while. A little change can make things special.
Let her be dominant every now and then, whether that's in the bedroom or out. Pick one area of your life where you totally take charge: sex, driving, paying the bill, planning outings with friends, cooking, ect., and let her do it every now and then. Being dominant and submissive switches can make you both better, more understanding lovers in whatever area you choose to switch.
Lube. Use it. Every time.
If you have feelings for other men, and you are beginning to identify as bisexual, tell your partner. It may be awkward, but there is such a thing as being monogamous and bisexual. There's also such a thing as setting boundaries that allow you to explore it a little and satisfy your cravings without going all the way.
Thank you!
-A.
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