So lately S. and I have been talking about threesome rules and regulations. And generally rules for what to do about bringing people into our love life, no matter how small. Let's start with something simpler: Exhibitionism.
We like to be watched during intimacy. It's kind of hot for us! We also like to watch. We are both switches, but we prefer to be watched a little more than to watch. But they are both fun.
But to be safe, we have to set our boundaries now before we try to do it in the heat of the moment, where everything is hot and sweaty and covered in lube. We have decided that if anyone is going to watch us, it will have to be a trusted friend (or friends). We would both prefer it be a female, but I'm sure a male would be okay. We've just found that the idea of being watched by a girl appeals to us more. And no online stuff! The only way we would show other people our intimacy online would be through secure video calling with someone we trust not to record it, or pictures sent to someone that we again trust not to distribute the media at all. As far as watching other people, they would have to have expressed a desire to be watched or hinted at it before it happens and we are again in the heat of the moment. We don't want to be part of anyone's impulsive mistakes that could hurt them or their partner or their relationships.
Another thing we want is someone who truly wants to watch us, and who will give us some little cues that they think watching us is arousing or hot. We don't need them to be stripping off clothing and masturbating loudly in the corner. Even just a little verbal confirmation that they are having fun and a good time would be plenty for us.
Now onto the biggie: Threesomes. And here's the main rule: No actual Threesomes.
See, we don't like the idea of ACTUALLY having sex with other people. We like soft playing. Not sex, and not even hand jobs. In fact, I'm not even interested in kissing another girl (and S. doesn't like it either). We enjoy the idea of soft, fun playing around with a third girl. Things like racy truth or dare and strip poker and maybe some little fondling. In fact, the ideal scenario for all this would be to have a friend who wanted to play with us, we played briefly with her and gave S. a chance to have some fun with boobs, and then let her watch us do stuff together. Or have some of me and S.'s friends over and have a fun day of toplessness. We seem to encourage bisexuality wherever we go, so we already know we'll have opportunities to try one or both of these things in the future. We've agreed that for any interaction with another girl we're waiting until we've been married for a while. Being watched would be something we would be up for today, it's just a wait for the right trustworthy friend to want to watch us (any takers???). They wouldn't get a full on sex show, but some grinding and generally hot stuff.
So to sum up: We want to have another girl int he bedroom sometime, and we wanna be watched. We just don't want to fuck them. Sure, we have plenty of other rules about what we would and would not do, and those change a lot. These rules I have here are just our set-in-stone boundaries for this kinda stuff.
Have a great day everyone!
-A.
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