Saturday, January 1, 2011

Swingers -S.

For those of you who do not know what a swinger is, swingers are two people in committed relationships(or marriages) who go out and find other couples or singles to have sex with. Couples who just like to swap off for oral sex, or stimulation outside of penetration are called "soft swingers." Soft swinging also consists of voyeurism and teasing. A full swap is when a couple engages in full sex with another couple or single person. Swingers can also be single people who enjoy being the 3rd in a threesome or more.

The only thing A. and I have ever considered doing was soft swinging, and would only be with single girls(bisexual), or girl couples(bisexual, or lesbian. Lesbian if they only wanted to do things to me, and have me do things to them. Bi for A., so he can get pleasure from it too!). NO guys in the equation. A. and i both have major issues with this, so we won't even consider another guy.

The extra girls would be in my control, really. They would have to agree to this, and our rules. They would NOT be allowed to have penetration from A. I don't share too well. They wouldn't be allowed to kiss him on the lips (for personal reasons), unless i specifically said that they could. They would be allowed to help me give him oral, they would be allowed to receive oral. A. would be allowed to play with their boobs, and if we had been "seeing" the girl(s) for a while, then he could finger them. He would be allowed to tell her to do whatever he wanted her to do to me. A. knows what I'm comfortable with, and what I'm not, and I know he wouldn't tell me to do anything I'm not comfortable with.

I'm pretty much up for anything! But i DO want one rule to be clear. STD tests before the first time is MANDATORY. I don't want an STD, and most importantly, I don't want A. to have to go through that pain of having one either. I want to live as long a life with A. as i possibly can!=)

Anyways. Soft swinger couples are couples who don't have full on sex. Maybe oral, and that's pushing it. A lot of "soft swingers" have someone else come in to help give pleasure to the other partner. For A. and I, that would just be another girl coming in to help me give pleasure to A. through oral stimulation, or teasing him(i.e., the girl and I making out, or touching each others breasts, or even fingering each other). These things would turn A. on a lot. Those are soft swingers.

Hard core swingers go all the way. They have full on sex with penetration, and they totally fuck each other. Some swinger couples get together with another couple, and swap partners for the night! These couples are normally totally comfortable with their sex lives.

A. and I are completely comfortable with our sex lives, and we are totally in love.... I still do NOT want to try swinging, or the swinger life style. I want to stay with just A., and I want him to be totally and completely mine. Even if the opportunity arose, I don't think A. and I would bring another girl into our sex life. That is just my personal opinion. If anybody has anything to add, please message A. or I, and I will gladly edit this post=)


-S.

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